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  • Maybe You’re Single on Valentine’s Day Because You Listen to Social Media

    Maybe You’re Single on Valentine’s Day Because You Listen to Social Media

    Someone you know – or someone you follow – woke up this Valentine’s Day morning single as hell, trying to figure out if they can DoorDash brunch on one of the busiest restaurant days of the year and planning an all-day “Sex and the City” marathon with their dog.

    All because they cut loose a boo with whom they had a good thing cooking before TikTok convinced them that 27 seconds is too long to wait for a response text in the “dating phase.”

    That social media is such a problematic arbiter of relationship advice hit me earlier this week when I came across this eye-wateringly awful “advice” on Threads this week: 

    With an exceedingly limited amount of context, several folks deduced that the answer for this young lady (who probably shouldn’t have posted this to begin with) is to throw away an entire fiancé because an “lol” means he doesn’t actually like the woman he asked to be his wife.

    Social media relationship content is big business for Black folks. TikTok and Instagram’s discover pages will happily curse you with a talking head barking enthusiastically about what we’re doing daily to sabotage our potential happiness. Or with someone who’s been in a relationship for about three days breaking down how you can do it too if only you follow these five tips!

    It’s entertaining stuff and we sop it up like a biscuit to gravy. Nothing wrong with engaging it – but taking the advice of these clowns with anything more than a grain of salt is a good way to die alone.

    Everyone wants to be a content creator these days, and many will do whatever it takes – including labeling themselves a “dating coach” (like they had to finish a formal certification program for that bullshit) to stoke the interminable flames of the internecine dating war between Black folks, doing the heavy lifting of white supremacy by turning us against each other.

    Some folks are out here with sincere advice, but it’s so difficult to discern who’s being authentic and who is feeding you dogshit for content’s sake that I throw it all in the slop pile by default.

    Take this idiot shuffling beads talking about how a Black man shouldn’t even approach a woman if he doesn’t have at least $300,000 in cash in the reserves (which literally writes off more than 99 percent of all Black American men). It’s probably rage bait, but it’ll motivate some tender-headed men to grow old alone chasing after “generational wealth” instead of wisely linking with a woman to grow it as a family.

    Even advice that seems ostensibly healthy can have a negative psychological impact. Lori Harvey caught wind this week for her comment of approval on the post of an “influencer” following up on a two-year-old post she made about breaking up with a man who was great but “not good enough,” only to flex her big-ass engagement ring and remind her followers to wait for greatness.   

    Common sense perhaps, but a whole bunch of young women who aren’t old enough to rent a car from Enterprise will see this and think they must hold out for the perfection that they’ll learn the hard way doesn’t actually exist.

    A good rule of thumb when approaching social media dating content is to assume that the loudest folks are likely the loneliest and most perpetually single. There’s virtually no Venn diagram overlap between folks who dedicate much of their social media presence to bashing the opposite sex and those in happy relationships. The “Don’t let a man take you for a coffee date” contingent hits “post” wishing they had a bae they could feel good introducing to their mama.

    Figure the quietest folks are in the happiest, healthiest and most secure partnerships. We’ll get a few photos and stories with their bae, but they’re too busy chillin’, cuddling and risking their freedom on hotel balconies to bitch online about how much pee is in the dating pool.

    If you really need dating advice, talk to your parents. Talk to the friends who know you better than anyone else. Hell, talk to a therapist. But heed the cliché and follow your gut on all things romance. If it bugs you a bit, address it. If it bothers you too much, bow out.

    But don’t let the noise online trick you – and maybe you’ll be making reservations Valentine’s Day 2027 with someone other than your Pomeranian.  

  • The Last Thing You’ll Ever Need to Read About the Tired ’50-50’ Dating Convo

    The Last Thing You’ll Ever Need to Read About the Tired ’50-50’ Dating Convo

    After three-plus years of ownership, Elon “Mein Kampf” Musk has managed to essentially strip X of Black Twitter, creating a void now filled by Threads, Instagram and TikTok. Unfortunately, the Black corners of those apps are now infected by an interminable conversation that was already tired when I was in college…25 years ago.

    Seems like one out of every five Black posts (on Threads especially) is connected to the “50-50” male-provider conversation – a bunch of single as shit folks talking about what they will and won’t tolerate in the future partner that God is gonna send them at some point before He returns for the Rapture.

    The discourse is inescapable on our podcasts as well: Recently, “life coach” Dr. Cheyenne Bryant hopped on “Tha Green Box” podcast and explained why she wouldn’t date a man making $50,000 because he couldn’t come close to providing for her lifestyle.

    The conversation sows division among Black folks unlike any other, and, like a cockroach lurking behind your icebox, it just won’t die. But allow me to try to put this foolishness to bed for good.

    It all starts with “tradition” — an amalgamation of capitalism, religion, patriarchy and biology that led us to the belief that penis equals protector and provider. As we do with avocados and the Holy Bible, we pick and choose the traditions we rock with; Black folks have remained obstinate with this one, overlooking our reality in a country in which rising costs outpace salary and folks are perpetually broke and in debt.

    Folks remain stuck in the mid-20th century mores we got from our grandparents. In my hometown of Detroit in the 1960s, a man with a high school diploma could — with his gig building cars for one of the Big Three automotive plants — buy a three-bedroom, three-level home for $11,000. His wife could stay home, tend house and raise their three children; he might even be able to pay for their in-state college tuition when that shit cost about 27 cents a semester.

    In contrast, the average starting income for a college grad today is about $68,000 –- while the average starter home anywhere close to a major city rubs up against half a mil. The average new car note hits for an eye-draining $750 a month. If you decide to grace the world with your spawn, just send your bank account off to commit seppuku: 10-year-olds are no longer good with $10 Etch-a-Sketches — they need $700 smartphones (for some reason).  

    So…if you want a house, kids, a couple Audis in the driveway and to pay few to no bills while your man works, you might need to suffice with living somewhere with four traffic lights, three local pubs, two gas stations and a partridge in a Dollar Tree. Want that lifestyle in a New York, Washington D.C., Los Angeles, or damn near anywhere that matters in California…? Dude had better be Phillip Banks.

    And, considering only six percent of Black Americans make six figures, good luck in the “Hunger Games” battle for his commitment.  

    Social media would also have you believe that any man willing to allow his wife to be the breadwinner is a f***ing godless loser. But because of the education gap between Black men and women, while women still earn a fraction of a man’s dollar, many sistas are now out-earning brothas. Yet many Black folks of both sexes remain ridiculously uncomfortable with a man taking a domestic role — managing kids and making a nice home for his hard-working wife to land. Something-something about Timothy and Corinthians…but it’s 2026, y’all. Grow up.

    Now, no one is suggesting that women (or men) should accept low-earning, low-aspirational partners just because they’re “nice” or because they do that thing you like with their pinky finger — nor should you accept someone whose goals don’t align with yours.

    A high-paying man or woman looking for financial parity in a partner is understandable, because if you’ve created a lifestyle for yourself through hard work, why bring in someone for whom you must threaten your accumulating wealth by paying for everything? If Dr. Bryant is likely well-compensated; it’s reasonable for her to not want to marry the senior rug cleaner at a Carvana store.

    Among the most effortless dating situations I’ve been in is when we’re both well-compensated and don’t think twice about paying for things for each other – because neither of us are treating the other like a child dependent. However, the real 50-50 conversation shouldn’t be about strictly remuneration – it’s about the division of all things to keep family and household afloat. If I excel at cleaning the bathtub and you excel at wiping moist toddler ass, we should act to our strengths.

    Unfortunately, far too many men in two-income homes with children tend to leave more work for the woman and, in many cases, not even realize it…because the patriarchy. A balance in which no one feels taken advantage of is rare, but it exists.

    @msbaethoven

    A 50/50 partnership is powerful. 💪 It’s not just about splitting bills or chores , it’s about shared effort, shared dreams, and showing up for each other equally. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 When both people give their best, nobody’s left carrying the weight alone. That’s balance. That’s love. That’s growth. ❤️ #EqualEnergy #BalancedLove #PartnershipGoals #HealthyRelationships #TeamworkInLove #WeOverMe #RealLoveVibes #CoupleGoals2025

    ♬ hit different higher – user98934302016

    But hey…if you think everything you just read is poppycock, stick with your antiquated paradigm. Everyone should get what they want and can command. As with all things you want, however, make peace with the possibility that you may never achieve it despite your best efforts. Damn shame to stay single forever because you refuse to pay a light bill, though.

  • Y’all Wanna Make Sherrone Moore About White Women…at the Expense of Black Women

    Y’all Wanna Make Sherrone Moore About White Women…at the Expense of Black Women

    Someone should teach a clinic on the fall of Sherrone Moore. Or at least shoot a Netflix limited series. The magnitude of the University of Michigan former head football coach’s descent feels unprecedented: From prepping for a bowl game with one of the most prestigious college football programs in the country to jobless and locked up in white scrubs on suicide watch inside of 12 hours’ time.

    A cherry eight-figure contract gone and a nearly $14 million buyout likely nixed because he was fired for cause. All because Moore became the Patron Saint of Clichés by allegedly cheating on his wife with his assistant.

    Many on our timelines point out Moore’s affinity for white women – his wife and alleged mistress – as the reason for his downfall…as if playing in the snow clouded his field of vision. Some say his mistress set him up for the fall because, y’know, that’s what white women do to prominent Black men! “That’s what happens when you go skiing with snowbunnies.”

    Everyone is misguided in blaming white women for this mess – especially because they do so at the expense of Black women.

    To paraphrase Rico from “Paid in Full,” muthaf****as cheat every day, B. But Moore apparently did so with the last woman on the planet he should’ve. Had he lost his job and quietly went home to grovel in front of his wife and three daughters, Moore would’ve quietly schlepped off to coach at a junior college somewhere and we would’ve all moved on quickly.

    But after getting fired, Moore allegedly motored to his mistress’ crib (with, I picture, angry snot bubbles coming out of his nose), broke in and blew his whole world up by way of…butter knives(?!?)…ensuring that he’ll be trying to sell you a Hyundai by sometime next quarter. You don’t need a cartographer to map out that degree of stupidity.

    None of this atrocious decision making is about Moore’s affinity for pink toes; he wasn’t the first and damn sure won’t be the last to buckle under the pleasures of any color of flesh. It’s just that some Black folks get emotional when they see a prominent successful brother with a wife who looks plucked from the model pool of the Lululemon Winter Collection.

    We knew Moore was Not Like Us™ when he said “Really, I don’t see color” while being interviewed about the plight of Black quarterbacks in 2023. So no one should be surprised that the executive assistant he’s alleged to have carried on with looks like she asked to speak to the manager at birth.

    But I don’t think these white women imbued Moore with the hubris to think he could have such a high profile and get away with screwing around on a wife who just gave birth to his youngest child. Also, a Black mistress wouldn’t have stood idly by, arms folded, if Moore tried to fire her only to keep his house clean, as rumors suggest he did. Nothing is more universal than a woman’s scorn…Moore is lucky if all his mistress does is spill the beans about their affair.

    “He shouldn’t have been messin’ with the white women” suggests Black women are stronger and better situated to “straighten” a damaged Black man…or that they alone should be required to do so. It also suggests, unconsciously or otherwise, that Black women are deserving of such behavior – which is scary when you consider this mindset is often perpetuated by other Black women.

    We witnessed a similar narrative when Jonathan Majors fumbled his Marvel bag in a toxic situation with his white girlfriend. Folks skipped past his alleged actions (and his reputation) and bee-lined to the notion that this white woman sought to destroy an innocent Black man as he was catching fire in Hollywood.  

    Look, Black women can’t necessarily save a man from himself, and it’s not their job to do so. Jada couldn’t prevent Will Smith from ensuring white folks never look at him the same way again, and she was sitting right next to him when he jacked up his reputation.

    Moore’s actions are likely to cause an insidious ripple effect that will negatively impact other would-be Black coaches, as William C. Rhoden writes about in Andscape. Swap out any color palette for his wife and mistress and it’ll all come back down to what he chose to do.

    As long as Black folks stay Blacking, we’ll have plenty of valid reasons to gripe about white folks. But this one isn’t on them. 

  • Why the Netflix Diddy Doc Participants Are Also Terrible Humans

    Why the Netflix Diddy Doc Participants Are Also Terrible Humans

    Just as “Surviving R. Kelly” laid bare the granular details of that subject’s alleged victims in a multi-part documentary, “Sean Combs: The Reckoning” has dominated Netflix since its Dec. 2 release for the same reason: It spends hours dissecting the megalomaniacal Sean “Diddy” Combs and his manifold transgressions – both alleged and not so much.

    And much like the Kells doc was the metaphorical nail in his metaphorical coffin, “The Reckoning” all but guarantees that Diddy’s troubles aren’t done even when he’s released from prison in 42 months. “The Reckoning’s” heinous claims against Diddy, however, obfuscate an uncomfortable truth: Many of the accusers in the doc speak publicly about what they witnessed years after they were positioned to do something about it – well past statutes of limitation that could’ve had Diddy behind bars long ago.  

    Let’s start with Bad Boy Records co-founder Kirk Burrowes, who’s garnered loads of sympathy on social media for being allegedly forced (by way of baseball bat) out of a company that was worth about $100 million during its late 90s, post-Biggie apex.

    Burrowes’ most viral allegations had to do with Diddy’s alleged role in the shooting death of Tupac Shakur, but he admitted to keeping journals documenting all the vile shit he insists he witnessed Diddy do. That would mean Burrowes has been sitting on about a half-decade of alleged dirt from Diddy’s ascendancy – so why are we just hearing about it several U.S. presidents later? Seems like he could’ve stemmed Diddy’s tide before it got high – but it likely would’ve jacked his bag up at the time.

    Producer Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones spent ample time with Diddy in Miami (and is apparently sitting on hours of raw video footage of him) as they created 2023’s “The Love Album: Off the Grid.”  

    “Unfortunately, if you wanna make it in this industry, you have to work for certain people like Puffy…he’s one of the gatekeepers,” Jones says in the doc, before detailing the abuse and assault he allegedly witnessed (and experienced).

    Jones admitted to shutting up and going with the flow (including allegedly witnessing a whole-ass shooting) – until Diddy didn’t pay him for his services. Now, there’s a $30 million lawsuit and participation in a doc. I wonder if we would’ve heard from Jones if he got his dough…

    Then there’s Kalenna Harper, Dawn Richard’s former bandmate from Diddy–Dirty Money. In the lawsuit Richard filed against Combs in 2024, she alleged that both she and Harper witnessed Diddy physically assault his then-girlfriend Casandra “Cassie” Ventura. However, Harper stood on business in defense of Diddy and said she didn’t see anything. Fine I guess…but Harper revealed that she did this shortly after she asked Diddy for a mere $5,000 loan to help her child custody battle — only for him to turn her down.

    Only the four of them know who witnessed what, but Harper comes off in the doc like a lovelorn woman whose cornbread is a bit soft in the middle. I wonder if we would’ve seen Harper in this doc, at all, if Diddy’s arrogant ass helped her out with what’s the equivalent of sofa cushion coins to him.

    “The Reckoning’s” most egregious offender is Capricorn Clark, Diddy’s former assistant who gained a lil’ shine when she took the stand in his trial earlier this year. She admitted to seeing flat-out abuse toward Cassie and claimed Diddy kidnapped and eventually fired her for keeping hush-hush about Cassie’s relationship with Kid Cudi. Clark admits to being positioned to take down Diddy’s whole shit almost 15 years ago…but she fixes her face to say, “I had more love for the culture than to embarrass him and take it all away from him like that.”

    Disgusting.

    The entertainment industry has been polluted with odious, solipsistic gatekeepers like Diddy since time immemorial. But their road to bad behavior have been paved by complicit souls who convinced themselves that it’s all “part of the business.” The assistants to Harvey Weinstein who knew what he was doing in those back rooms but kept quiet because they aspired to be Hollywood players. The folks who joined R. Kelly to pick up girls in the parking lot of Kenwood Academy High School in Chicago because they loved the A-list access. These big, bad men don’t get big and bad all alone.

    Many of the subjects in “The Reckoning” had or still have civil suits filed against Diddy is hard to ignore — and it also begs curiosity regarding how much more Diddy dirt is being covered up by folks who got their money.

    Keeping quiet in the name of securing bags is among the more insidious yet commonplace aspects of capitalism. But “The Reckoning” lays bare an existential query: Are folks who stay quiet while witnessing terrible people do terrible things complicit? And in this case of “The Reckoning”…should they be in a jail cell next to Diddy?

  • Rolling Stone’s ‘Best Films of 2025’ List is Trash, Here’s Why They Aren’t Alone

    Rolling Stone’s ‘Best Films of 2025’ List is Trash, Here’s Why They Aren’t Alone

    It’s that time of year again…when the sun chucks deuces before 5 p.m., you gotta check your Ring cam watch for Amazon package thieves and you start yelling words at a screen you wouldn’t use around your mama after reading any media publication’s year-end “best of” lists.

    Since no two lists ranking the best movies, music, film and television of a given year are ever the same, they all court controversy: No small number of fingers flying on social media lamenting the continued existence on the mortal plane of a writer who would dare not include the shit you couldn’t stop playing this year. Often, it’s mere butthurt subjectivity, but sometimes everyone agrees that a publication’s “best of” list completely shits the futon. This time, it’s Rolling Stone magazine.

    Last week, the venerated publication released its 20 Best Movies of 2025 list, compiled by the magazine’s Film/TV critic David Fear, who looks like he’s about seven seconds away from flunking you in his British Lit class at a New England liberal arts college. Everyone who failed the Paper Bag Test immediately noticed one glaring omission from his list:

    No “Sinners.”

    As such, Black social media has been treating Fear like he has a Swastika tattooed on his forehead — a not-necessarily-fair-but-unsurprising response given Ryan Coogler’s passion project is one of the best reviewed (97% on Rotten Tomatoes) and performing ($367 million globally) films of the year. Oh, and his list included “Weapons” and “One Battle After Another,” neither of which is better than “Sinners” and the former which is wildly overrated.

    A similar travesty occurred two months ago when Pitchfork released its 100 Best Rap Albums of All Time list. It started off worthy of immediate deletion from Tom Hanks’ internet by putting “Doggystyle” at 100, but the list’s most egregious sin is the mixtape “Rich Gang: Tha Tour Pt. 1” at number six. Because we’re supposed to take seriously a list that puts that project above “Enter the 36 Chambers” and “The Low End Theory.” Rich Homie Quan probably “hit the Quan” in his grave over that ranking, and it’s his damn album.

    That they’re such podcast fodder alone justifies the continued existence of these lists. But there are several reasons why they should only be points of reference as part of a deeper dive for people seeking the best that a genre has to offer.

    First, the perception of media critics as cognoscenti in the art in which they critique is flawed. Their Rock acumen isn’t necessarily better than yours because they can name the key in which Jimi Hendrix recorded that one deep cut he wrote while high on LSD in a hotel room in Topeka. Many of these self-important critics view “mainstream” as a pejorative and purposely buck against trends; it’s how we wind up with folks like Fear listing a bunch of art house films maybe seven people have ever heard of lieu of critical and commercial bangers like “Sinners.”

    On the inverse, the staff of many of these publications consist of younger Millennials and a few Gen-Zers discussing the greatest hip-hop albums ever despite still being undeveloped ovum years after Nas, Ice Cube, Jay-Z and Scarface released their seminal works. Age bias is a thing, and I’m not sure I welcome the Chris-Brown-Over-Michael-Jackson contingent’s opinion on anything outside of “Fortnite” builds. Conversely, I don’t want to read lists from old heads who have Immortal Technique in their Top 5 or who believe hip-hop “died” when KRS-ONE retired.

    Relatedly, we should also beware folks who judge and rank media based on a limited or myopic understanding of the genre. For example, I love Takashi Murakami’s art, but I’m no aesthete and I’m nowhere in the vicinity of being qualified to create a Top 10 Contemporary Artists list. I’d get laughed out of any granular discussion on art.

    Finally, corporate interests and relationships have always played a quiet role in rankings and list placements. Those who remember the dark era of The Source magazine when pre-oak-tree-neck Benzino stunk up the whole place and had the gall to give a Mad Men album 4.5 Mics know of what I write. An album, song, film or show that has no damn business on a top-anything list likely indicates that palms are being greased one way or the next.

    But not every single best-of list is disingenuous: For a thoughtfully curated (if still always controversial) take on the year’s best hip-hop, check out “Rap Radar” Podcast creator Brian “B-Dot” Miller’s long-running top 10 lists. And here at The Root, our technique for creating such lists is sound: Poll all staff and freelancers — who have a healthy several-decade age range –- to see what their faves are for the year and produce accordingly.  

    In fact, no publication with a series of staff should rely on just one person to pull together the best-of lists. That’s how your mentions turn to toxic waste – the likes of which David Fear is probably power-deleting as I type.  

  • Georgia Man Who Wrote That He’d Rather Sleep With a Dog Than a Black Woman is Killed By His White Girlfriend, Who is Set Free

    Georgia Man Who Wrote That He’d Rather Sleep With a Dog Than a Black Woman is Killed By His White Girlfriend, Who is Set Free

    A Georgia grand jury declined to charge a white woman who fatally shot her Black boyfriend. But Black social media is not responding how one might expect it to in this situation.

    Hannah Cobb was arrested in February and charged with involuntary manslaughter after an incident in which she shot her boyfriend, Telvin Osborne, in the chest. According to police, the couple had allegedly been drinking when Cobb went to the master bedroom to check and clean her firearm and accidentally fired a fatal shot toward Osborne, as she said.

    Multiple reports later revealed, the couple got into a heated argument after leaving the club, allegedly over Osborne’s infidelity. The confrontation escalated, ultimately ending in the shooting of Osborne.

    Following the exoneration, the Burke County Sheriff’s Office made a post on Facebook stating that violent protests regarding the decision would not be tolerated. But though many in the Black community are obviously saddened by the loss of one of its own, some social media users have expressed mixed reactions since Osborne apparently routinely scolded Black woman on his social media profile.

    X user @blackdetta highlighted past posts on Osborne’s account in which he praised White women and denounced Black women, including stating that he would rather sleep with a dog than a Black woman.

    TikToker @ControversialShannon also brought up some past controversial statements by Osborne which made him question his feelings towards the matter.

    @controversialshannon

    HANNAH G. COBB THE WOMAN WHO UNALIVED TELVIN OSBORN WILL NOT FACE ANY CHARGES DUE TO THE DECISION OF A GRAND JURY! OH WELL! #blackmen #blackwomen #relationships #dating #marriage #telvinosborn #hannagcobb

    ♬ original sound – ControversialShannon

    “In my honest opinion, I don’t care. Because Mr. Telvin Osborne had said a whole bunch of disgusting things about Black women,” he emphasized. “He also had tweets saying, if it ain’t snowing, he ain’t going blah, blah, blah. He even said that he would unalive for his girlfriend, who was a YT woman. He did indeed get unalived by his girlfriend, who was a YT woman. And that’s why I don’t care.”

    Others, including X user @BLKLiberation84 are using this entire case as a teaching moment for Black men who hate on Black women possibly due to a lack of self love and past trauma.

  • Shannon Sharpe’s Sexual Assault Lawsuit Fallout Continues With This Latest Bad News

    Shannon Sharpe’s Sexual Assault Lawsuit Fallout Continues With This Latest Bad News

    As Shannon Sharpe continues enduring the fallout behind his sexual assault filed against him in April, it seems that his latest planned venture might be the next casualty on that list. Several weeks before Sharpe and Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson were scheduled to start an eight-city “Nightcap NSFW” Tour of their popular YouTube program, the NFL Hall of Famer announced that the tour had been postponed until 2026.

    Sharpe made the announcement during a recent episode of Nightcap. The tour was scheduled to start in Baltimore on June 13 and was slated to end in Detroit on August 16. No details were released regarding dates in 2026.

    “We’ve decided to postpone the Nightcap tour,” Sharpe stated during the May 23 episode. “We look forward to seeing you guys in the summer of 2026. It’s going to be even bigger, even better. But Ocho and I have come to the conclusion that this is the best thing as of right now, was to postpone the tour. We look forward to seeing each and every one of you in 2026.”

    The tour was scheduled to hit Baltimore (June 13), Philadelphia (June 14), Charlotte (July 12), Los Angeles (July 19), Miami (July 25), New York (July 26), Chicago (August 15) and Detriot (August 16) with a price range of $35 and $140.

    The news comes as the 56-year-old former football player-turned-podcaster/sports analyst is embroiled in a $50 million lawsuit alleging that he sexually assaulted a woman he was in a relationship with. The woman, later identified as Gabriella Zuniga, accused him of physically abusing her and made threats against her life during the time they were seeing each other. Zuniga was 19 when the two met at a gym.

    Sharpe has vigorously denied the allegations, although admitting that there was a $10 million settlement offered to Zuniga before she filed this lawsuit with Texas attorney Tony Buzbee. Buzbee is also entangled in a lawsuit with JAY-Z after a client of his accused the billionaire rapper of raping an underaged teenager, along with Sean “Diddy’ Combs in an alleged 2000 sexual assault.

    The former Denver Broncos player decided to step aside from his ESPN duties after the accusations were levied against him. He stated he would return in time for the upcoming NFL season.

  • Singer Jaheim Arrested Again For the Same Thing That Landed Him Behind Bars Before

    Singer Jaheim Arrested Again For the Same Thing That Landed Him Behind Bars Before

    R&B singer Jaheim had a brief stint in jail earlier this month. And it’s for more of the same thing that landed him in the pokey four years ago

    The three-time Grammy nominated singer, whose birth name is Jahiem Hoagland, is currently facing six charges of animal cruelty after being arrested in Fulton County, Georgia on May 1.

    Court documents state that the R&B singer is accused of not providing sanitary conditions, sufficient water, and ventilation for the dogs in his care, who are reportedly named Tweet, Tip, Taka, Tink, Timber, and Tanger.

    He was released the day following, according to jail records.

    A handful of TikTok user’s reacted to Jaheim’s charges including TikToker @dailyhiphoptea who said, ”Jaheim needs to put them dogs first!”

    “I’m not gonna lie, I absolutely was not surprised about any of this,” he continued. “Back in 2021, he was arrested in New Jersey on animal cruelty charges after allegedly starving his dogs. Back during that case, a couple of his dogs actually had to be euthanized due to all the damage he did by mistreating them. Now, I don’t know what this man is going through or why he owns animals and does not take care of them, but this is literally insane.”

    More information on Jaheim’s charges and court dates are not yet available.

    Jaheim’s animal cruelty charges are reminiscent of another former high-profile Georgia celebrity’s case: In 2007, then Atlanta Falcons star quarterback Michael Vick was sentenced to 23 months in prison for running a dog fighting ring and subsequently lying about it.

    It was reported that Vick and his associates ran the ring under the name “Bad Newz Kennels,” in which reportedly housed and trained more than 50 pit bull dogs, staged dog fights, killed dogs, and organized a gambling ring with purses up to 26,000.

    The quarterback ultimately spent 21 months in prison and returned to the NFL to play for the Philadelphia Eagles following his release.

  • Black Professor: Why Gen-Zs Are the Absolute Worst

    Black Professor: Why Gen-Zs Are the Absolute Worst

    Ever get the impression that Gen-Z is lazy and shiftless? According to a slew of recent studies, you’re not alone. Sites from Fortune to Resume Builder have run stories on how disappointing recent college graduates have been in the workforce, and how their managers are so fed up that they actively avoid hiring them.

    Companies and hiring managers agree that Gen-Z — which makes up folks born between 1995 and 2012 — is unmotivated, unprepared and unprofessional. They don’t have the stamina or the desire to do the work, and worst of all, they don’t feel like they should have to. Of course, this disproportionately impacts potential Black hires, according to a study from Oxford Economic Journal that confirms Black folks are scrutinized more in the workplace — as we always have been.

    Of course, I didn’t need any studies to tell me how bad things are with Gen-Z: As a Black, tenured professor at a private university in New York and a hardworking, independent member of Gen-X, I’ve seen firsthand how so many of my students don’t have what it takes even to do an unpaid internship well, much less a job.

    @ceo_of_limitless

    Generation Z is navigating a tough job market, and are claiming burnout😳. We are also seeing a worrying trend of young people getting let go from their roles. One major reason for this? Many aren’t fully grasping what’s expected of them in a professional setting. It’s vital that we step up and give our youth the tools they need to thrive, both personally and professionally. While the workplace has changed dramatically over the years, some core principles are timeless. To help young people bridge this gap, we must lean on organizations dedicated to youth empowerment, like the New Tenth Foundation, where I’m proud to contribute. Our mission is to inspire kids aged 9 to 17, helping them tap into their STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Mathematics) talents to create innovative solutions for real-world community challenges. But we don’t stop there! We also provide support to recent college graduates who might feel daunted by the entrepreneurial world. We equip them with essential skills to become not just good employees, but exceptional ones. If you know a young individual struggling to navigate today’s competitive landscape, I wholeheartedly encourage you to check out the resources our foundation offers. Let’s work together to build resilience and set them on a path to success! #workplace #genz #investment #business #entrepreneurship #focus #trust #discipline #belief #growth #success #wealth

    ♬ original sound – Marcus A. Turner

    During the COVID-19 pandemic, when many classes were held via Zoom, one young man showed up on camera shirtless and reclining in his bed. I had to send him a private message to put a shirt on. Others address me casually in emails by my first name, even though I’m a tenured professor with a Ph.D. I’ve had students argue with me about assignments and skills needed even though I have more than 30 years of experience in my field.

    Once, I assigned an important film to a class…an Oscar-winning classic that made its mark on American culture 50 years ago. A student who’d been argumentative all semester — and whose essay response was written with the grammar skills of a small child — complained in response to her low grade that she just didn’t like to watch movies. She just couldn’t focus her attention on something that long and boring, she said.

    But none of this compares to an off-campus incident I happened to witness recently. This one took the cake as a mix of Gen-Z entitlement and white male superiority. I was at Burlington’s where about two dozen people waited in line. All of them were Black or Latino, several with grandparents and baby strollers. Only three cashiers were working, all of them young, Black women.

    That’s when two tall white male jocks strolled past the line of people and presented themselves to checkout like it was nothing. They waved something at the cashier, maybe a phone charger, and said they “just had one thing.” They expected to be checked out, right then and there, ahead of everyone else. What was even more shocking was that the cashier didn’t register a thing as she lackadaisically started to ring them up.

    @elite.recruiter

    Gen Z isn’t lazy—they’re task masking to survive broken work cultures. But faking productivity won’t get you promoted. Let’s talk about the trend that’s costing companies money and stalling careers. #TaskMasking #Fauxductivity #CareerGrowth #GenZAtWork #WorkplaceTruths #EliteRecruiter #CareerTruths #CorporateReality #CareerAdvice #careertiktok #fy #fyp #workplacetrends #genz #job #fakingit

    ♬ original sound – Elite Recruiter – Deepali Vyas

    “Oh, heeeeeell no!” I called out from my place in line. “Who do you think you are, jumping ahead of all these people?” Jock boys flashed me a couple of dirty looks, turned on their jock heels, and left. If anybody is crazy enough to hire one of these arrogant kids, just know that they’re never going to do any kind of real work. Because they just don’t want to. And they don’t see why they should.

    There are exceptions, of course. Every semester I have at least one student that blows me away with their kindness and passion for knowledge. I know they have what it takes because they answer emails right away, never have any kind of attitude, and jump right on anything needs to be done.

    These are students who understand that they’re living in a harsh, unpredictable world. They know they need to give 1,000 percent if they’re going to survive. For them, I’ll do anything I can to make sure they make it.