A performer onstage with Too Short during Kicksperience at the 2018 BET Experience Fan Fest at Los Angeles Convention Center on June 22, 2018, in Los Angeles
Photo: Brandon Williams (Getty Images for BET)

What to wear? What to wear?

First things first: I’m not cool. I’ve never been cool. Not gonna be cool. Couldn’t be cool if I tried. And the BET Awards—as well as the various colorfully dressed, still flat-and-tight-stomached young people who attend it—are cool. (Even when I was a young-’n’-flat-stomached little thing, I wasn’t cool.)

The kids here are dressed outrageous and are here in droves to catch glimpses of everyone from Migos to Janelle Monáe to Big Sean to Meek Mill to Nicki Minaj. And I, of course, show up with five dresses that all look like I’m going to the bougiest garden party in Martha’s Vineyard.

You can take the girl out of the bougie garden party, but you can’t take the bougie garden party out of the girl.

Welcome to a special, BET Awards edition of Antisocial, the society column for people afraid of society. Every year BET tries to outdo itself with its annual awards-show event (and its larger BET Experience festival series, which unfolds over several days leading up to the event), and for the second year in a row, The Root is here for it.

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I had aspirations of dressing cool for this year’s awards, hosted by Jamie Foxx, honoring the best and blackest in music, TV, film and sports. I ordered trendy jumpsuits that I need to send back because they don’t fit. I bought cool sneakers that did fit. I went with a rose-gold palette. I considered wearing a cool wax print again, as I did last year, until I learned that the theme for the 2018 awards was “Welcome to Blackanda,” and couldn’t stop laughing.

Help, y’all. Help me.

Not wanting to be “on brand,” with this Coming to America-meets-Black Panther mashup, I went with a pink, embroidered dress from ASOS that would look great if I were going to get tipsy at a posh, rooftop day party in Washington, D.C.

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Whatever. I’m wearing it. I’m taking pictures. It’ll be fine.

Besides, there are more pressing issues at hand, like ...

  • Will Drake win best video for “God’s Plan,” or will Cardi B win for “Bodak Yellow”? (“God’s Plan” is a manipulative little thing that made me bawl like a baby, so I’m here for this potential Drake win.)
  • Why is Chris Brown up for a Director of the Year award against—Ava DuVernay and Director X?
  • Who the hell is the front-runner in this heavily stacked Best Actress category with Tiffany Haddish, Lupita Nyong’o, Issa Rae, Angela Bassett, Letitia Wright and Taraji P. Henson?
  • Ditto for Best Actor, which includes Chadwick Boseman, Michael B. Jordan, Donald Glover, Sterling K. Brown, Denzel Washington and Daniel Kaluuya! How do you even pick? (Since the BET Awards are about being cool, though, it’s probably a three-way death fight among Killmonger, the “Bleck Pentha” and Earn from Atlanta.)

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That said, Deputy Managing Editor Yesha Callahan, video producer Felice León, weekend Social Media Editor Corey Townsend and I somehow all managed to get here to cover this thing. We’ll be live-blogging, live-tweeting and Instagramming everything, so please, follow along at our respective accounts.

I promise I’ll try to not be wack if I can’t be cool. Honest to goodness, I will try.

AntisocialThe society column for people afraid of society, written by The Root's Editor-in-Chief and resident Bipolar Disorder expert/sufferer.