How racist do you have to be to tell a widow you wonβt bury her Black husband because a decades-old law says the cemetery is whites only? A Louisiana woman said she met someone who was just that racist and was shocked at how indifferent that person was in denying her late husband the right to be laid to rest in a place of his choosing.
From the Washington Post:
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Before Darrell Semien died on Sunday of bladder cancer, the 55-year-old Black man left his family with a single dying wish: He wanted to be buried near their home in Oberlin, La., and close to his old stomping ground at the sheriffβs office.
So his widow, Karla, and their seven kids found a graveyard a few miles outside town, a quiet site surrounded by thick green forest. When they arrived Tuesday to take a look, she told The Washington Post, the overseer at Oaklin Springs Baptist CemeteryΒ stopped them cold.
βOh, weβre going to have a dispute. We canβt sell you a plot,β Semien recalled the woman saying. βThis is a Whites-only cemetery. There are no coloreds here.β
The cemetery employee wasnβt identified but was fired, according to Creig Vizena, the cemeteryβs president, who I like to think also told her to hop in her white supremacist time machine and take her ass back to 1950 where she belongs.
Seriously, there are plenty of people in America who are still just as racist as white folks were in the Jim Crow era, but youβd think most of them at least know that practicing segregation in the 21st century will lose them their jobs. Apparently, though, this person was unabashed in denying a Black manβs wish to be buried where he wanted to be.
β[She said] just blatantly, with no remorse, βI canβt sell you a plot for your husband,ββ one of Semienβs daughters, Kimberly Curly, told KPLC 7. βEverybody dies. They bleed the same. You die. Youβre the same color. Death has no color, so why should he be refused?β
βAnd to be told this is like we were nothing. He was nothing? He put his life on the line for them,β Karla said of her husband who was an Allen Parish sheriffβs deputy.
Karla also recalled that the woman βhad this paperwork in her hand that she said was drawn up 70-plus years ago.
βIf we really wanted to have him buried here, we would have to get board approval because he was a colored man,β she said.
Vizena told KPLC that he promised the cemeteryβs old bylawβwhich states that gravesites could only be used to bury βthe remains of white human beings,β according to the Postββwill be fixed.β He said that before this incident that policy βnever came up.β
βI take full responsibility for that,β he said. βIβve been the president of this board for several years now.β
According to KPLC, officials for the cemetery changed its contractual bylaws in a meeting on Thursday night to allow anyone of any race to be buried there. The Semien family said they were offered a new plot at Oaklin Springs, but theyβve decided to bury their father and husband somewhere else.
So basically, in 2021, Americaβs legally racist past is still being corrected, and Black people canβt even die and be buried without being confronted by white supremacy.
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