The moment I saw the afro pick, I knew it was love. Black love.
During my childhood in Chicago, it was impossible to ignore hometown haircare brand Johnson Productsβ hero product, Afro Sheen, which was ubiquitous in black households across America from the β60s through the β80s. And while its popularity may have waned in recent decades, nostalgia for the brand has remainedβitβs part of black history, yβall!
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So, when I heard the brand was staging a comeback, I was understandably excited. With the black haircare space booming, what would one of its pioneers bring to the table in the new millennium? Opening the box they sent me to preview, I saw an Afro Sheen-branded, black-fisted afro pick lying atop the collection, and was absolutely hyped.
And so was my dude. In fact, the first words out of his mouth were, βYes! Iβve been needing a pick! Fantastic!β Ahem, Sir.
My response (after a serious side-eye)? βSorry, my brother; youβve got to get your own.β Did he not see this thick halo of 3C curls atop my head?
As it turns out, this is a line we can enjoy together. You wonβt find the original petroleum-based product in AfroSheenβs new nine-product array formulated for all types of afro-textured hairβitβs now based on friendlier ingredients like keratin and coconut, flaxseed, and castor oil (and can be found in Walgreens and Amazon). But like the original, the assortment is entirely unisex, meaning the dude and I can share the love of this relaunched legacy brand. (Heβs still getting his own black fist pick, though; itβll adorn his Valentineβs Day gift.)
But Afro Sheen inspired me to rethink my approach to the cheesiest most romantic holiday of the year; one typically marked by cupids, candy hearts, champagne, overpriced meals and chocolate-covered extravagance. But if love is the message weβre trying to give on Valentineβs Day, shouldnβt we be focusing on togetherness we can share long after February 14th? Movie theaters will no doubt be packed on Friday night, as 20- and 30-somethings presumably get their generationβs Love Jones with the premiere of The Photograph (black love, yβall!); likewise, Chicago will undoubtedly be booming with both βlove & basketballβ for NBA All-Star Weekend. What gifts will last after the credits roll and the last layup has been sunk? How can we keep this same energy all year?
Itβs no secret that I am not only a fan but an ardent user of menβs grooming brand Scotch Porter; and as Valentineβs Day approaches, theyβre finally honoring the ladies, too! The brand just launched the Scotch Porter Hair Collection; a line of non-toxic hair care products based on kale protein and biotin with a focus on coily, curly, kinky and wavy hair types. βNow women donβt have to worry about sharing their hair products with the men in their life!β the brand tells us. But frankly, we think sharing is caring...and this is what we call βhair love.β
Bevelβs best known for its revolutionary shaving products, which changed the game for black men. But when the brand sent me a box of their nine new bath, body and hair products, I knew there was no way I was handing this one over to the fella. With scents like Dark Cassis and Black Bergamot, these dermatologist-tested formulas have a gender-fluid appeal and have quickly become a fixture in my shower. The best part (aside from lathering up together)? The entire product line is now available in Target stores. Howβs that for a last-minute gift option?
They say the couple that plays together stays together; does that mean those that cook together have extra sizzle? Iβve certainly found that to be true, so why not spice things up by creating some succulent meals together? Since itβs also Black History Month, Iβm loving the legacy of our food, as captured in the acclaimed cookbook Jubilee: Recipes From Two Centuries of African American Cooking (named one of the best cookbooks of 2019 by the New York Times, the Atlantic, and NPR, among others). In addition to paying tribute to our culture, cooking together is a delicious way to spend some quality time. (After all, good food is good foreplay, no?)
Over 40 years since its initial release, βStrawberry Letter #23" is still a bona fide bopβand so is the dwindling art of the love letter. While e-mail and text may corner the market on speed, a handwritten missive is still the hallmark of intimacy; I watch my fellaβs face light up every time he opens a card Iβve hidden for him to find. And there are other methods: Have you considered sharing a journal with your significant other, so you have an evolving keepsake that declares your love for each other? Iβm personally a fan of the black female-owned Greer Stationery, which has everything you needβcards, paper, pens, and journalsβto send your lover a valentine theyβll never forget.
One of the best most loving things Iβve heard from my partner? βYou are enough.β (*swoon* This is why heβs bae.) Brooklyn, N.Y.-based statement-makers Rayo & Honey give you the opportunity to remind each other every day with their mirror of the same name ($150), inspired by the words of Maya Angelou. A valentine made to last, every time you or your love look into it, itβll be a reflection of how you feel for each other.
Do you and your love have a taste for the finer things (or love the occasional buzz)? Joiningβor giftingβa wine club membership is a fantastic way to remind yourselves to take a beat and savor the moment together. Our recommendation? The highly acclaimed (and black female-founded) Theopolis Vineyards, which offers three tiers of its wine club, meaning you can experience high-quality varietals at a variety of price points.
Feeling the love yet? Well, thereβs more to come (and these are excellent gifts to give yourself, as well). Regardless (in my best Andre 3000 voice), Happy Valentineβs DayβFebruary the 14th! (So get to shopping!)
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