BET Documentary Explores the Complexities of Being Black and Gay in the Church

Scene from Holler If You Hear Me: Black and Gay in the Church 
Scene from Holler If You Hear Me: Black and Gay in the Church 

“It’s about the fight for your soul,” says Clay Cane about his new documentary, Holler If You Hear Me: Black and Gay in the Church. “It’s about the struggle to be authentic, to honestly live your own life and have a spiritual space, too.”


The battleground in the fight for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights and acceptance is moving from the courts to the church, where a stubborn, intransigent homophobia has profoundly affected many of its African-American members. Journalist Cane, a veteran film critic and entertainment editor at, chose this subject for his first film, a 60-minute documentary on the complex situation that exists between the African-American church and its LGBT population. The film premieres Tuesday on and the BET Now app, and that same evening, there will be a special screening at New York University’s LGBT student center. 

Cane has written on a variety of cultural subjects, often focusing on homophobia, for several outlets (including The Root), and as this particular story grew and became more nuanced, he sought the larger format of documentary cinema for its telling. The film was realized quickly. He wrote the proposal in winter, shot in Atlanta in May and finished the film for release this month. But the speed doesn’t mean that it was an easy film to make.

“We did lots of preinterviews with our subjects,” he said via phone Friday morning. He noted that his subjects had very personal and often painful stories. “I wanted them to be as comfortable as possible and know that we were going to present them in a respectful way.” 

The film tells the story of several people who were ostracized by the church and their families, as well as the stories of those still inside the church. The film is bookended by the courtship and marriage of Jonita and Tonyka, two women who met in church. At the outset of the film, we hear Tonyka’s mother’s voice. She tenderly says that she doesn’t hate gays but adds, “I believe that the enemy has invaded them. I don’t believe they were born that way.”

She continues, “I can’t ever believe that God makes mistakes like that. We have to understand that we are engaged in spiritual warfare.” It’s that level of candor that makes the film so riveting. The film gives Tonyka ample room to respond about the difficulty of living honestly and being rejected by her family and their church. 

The film is equally powerful and probing in dealing with gays who have remained in the church and their contradictions. For instance, Charles Anthony, the minister of music at the historic Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, speaks in a soft, almost cracking voice about the need to be where he felt God sent him, though he lacks a sense of affirmation from his peers. 


“The one thing I wish the church had across the board is empathy for anyone,” he says in the film, in describing what he defines as a sadness, not pain. “If we did, we would not be so quick to judge, and people wouldn’t be hurt as much as they are.”

Anthony nails the point that homophobia goes beyond the church. “In the black community, you can be anything, just don’t be gay.” 


The film moves seamlessly from its bold-faced, stop-you-in-your-tracks quotes to tender storytelling. As is typically the case with great documentary cinema, it leaves you with a better grasp of an essential issue and a sense of the next steps in the situation. 

Cane says that he intends to continue following the story but that making this film has whet his appetite for cinema. “I love telling people’s stories,” he said, “and there are many more to tell."


Watch the full documentary here.

Martin Johnson writes about music for the Wall Street Journal, basketball for Slate and beer for Eater, and he blogs at both the Joy of Cheese and Rotations. Follow him on Twitter