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Ask Agatha: Reckless Flirting, Fronting On Black Twitter, And Wiping While Sitting
Before we dive into this week’s questions, I want to apologize to my constant reader[s] for my absence (hey Kas). You see what had happened was, I haven’t been getting any good questions and Damon never put out the call like I so sweetly asked because apparently he has a popular site to run and…
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Ask Agatha: "Is My Girlfriend Just Not That Into Me Anymore?"
***By the time you all read this, I’ll be on an island basking in the sunshine but since one of my faithful readers said sunlight is for closers, I figured I should stop dicking around with this advice column and write something so I can enjoy these island rays guilt free. I can’t guarantee another…
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Ask Agatha: "Should I Correct A Black Coworker Who ALWAYS Misuses Words?"
Dylan from Cincinnati, Ohio asks: Girth or length? Asking for a friend. Um…have you met women? We want both. And if you don’t have both you better be really fucking interesting and by interesting I mean rich. And by rich I mean okay with us seeing other people—like your big swinging dick daddy while you’re…
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Ask Agatha: Things "Aint Shit" People Say And What To Do When Your BF's Friend Hits On You
Deena from Cobb County, GA asks: My friends and I started talking about the sort of shit ain’t shit people always say and we got on quite a roll. What do you think are some famous ain’t shit phrases? A classic ain’t shit phrase is “I’m just a person.” Because who isn’t right? I have…
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Ask Agatha: "I'll Be A Dad Soon, And I'm Worried About What Type Of Dad I'll Be"
Kahlil from Richmond, VA asks: I’m going to be a dad soon. It wasn’t planned and I feel unprepared but mostly I’m worried about the type of dad I’ll be. Every dad that has ever existed or will ever exist can be categorized into one of two groups. As a dad you can be present…
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Ask Agatha: "Help! I'm Dating A One Minute Man!" And Why You Should Never Date A DJ
Laila from Pittsburgh, PA asks: I love him but the sex is trash. Since we stopped using condoms, he’s done before I even settle on the bed properly. And he’s usually rearing to go again pretty quickly but he doesn’t last much longer the second time either. This can’t be life. Miss Agatha, help me…
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Ask Agatha: The Debt-Related Danger Of Accepting Drinks From Men
Kali from Durham, NC asks: If a guy buys me a drink, do I owe him something? I feel like they think I owe them something and I hate having them trail after me all night because of a cocktail. Well debt collectors are nothing if not persistent. And that’s what these men are, debt…
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Ask Agatha: "I Like Her, But She Says I'm Just A Friend" And Why "I'm Fine" Is Usually A Lie
Wayne from Edgewater, NJ asks: I’ve liked my friend Tanya for three years. When we met we were both single but to be honest I was intimidated by her (she’s bad) and instead of making a move I somehow ended up becoming her friend. I guess I was playing the long game but in the…
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Ask Agatha: "I Like Black Women But Hate Fake Hair. What Should I Do???"
Johnny from Atlanta, GA asks: I like black women but I hate the fake hair they wear, all of it, the wigs, the weaves, and the ponytails. It’s definitely a deal breaker for me. I’m a hair puller. So, I wanna know…is there a sure fire way to tell if it’s all hers? So that…
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Ask Agatha: Adult Virgins And The Single Worst Zodiac Sign To Date
Katie-Ann from Atlanta, GA asks: I’m 30 and I’m still a virgin. For a long time I was waiting until marriage and then for a longer time I was waiting for the one. And now finally, I just want to get rid of the “virgin” label but since I’ve waited so long…the men I meet…