Agatha Guilluame

10/10/17

Ask Agatha, or Don’t: Unsolicited Advice to a Woman Who’s Afraid to Be a Nag

On Friday I read a Harper’s Bazaar piece by Gemma Hartley about the burden of emotional labor, and it left me…

9/26/17

Ask Agatha: Her Friends and Family Hate Me (but I Kinda See Why), Superhero Sex and More

Austin from Pittsburgh asks:

9/19/17

Ask Agatha: Should I Ignore Her When She Says There’s No Future for Us?

Landon from Seattle asks:

8/29/17

Ask Agatha: Is Taking Care of Men Becoming the New Trend?

Brandi from Washington, D.C., asks:

8/22/17

Ask Agatha: I Can’t Orgasm During Sex. What Should I Do?

Jillian from Atlanta asks:

9/13/16

Ask Agatha: "I Think He's Using Me For My National Museum of African American History and Culture Opening Tickets"

Nkasi from Brooklyn, NY asks:

8/30/16

Ask Agatha: "I Want My Ex Back, But She Moved Across The Country. Should I Fly Out There?"

Jomo from Pittsburgh, PA asks:

8/23/16

Ask Agatha: "I'm Losing My Best Friend To Her Boyfriend. What Should I Do?"

Jaye from San Francisco, CA asks:

7/26/16

Ask Agatha: "How Do You Give Oscar-Worthy Head?" And What To Wear To Boat Parties

Misha from Richmond, VA asks:

6/28/16

Ask Agatha: The Rationale Behind "Ghosting" On A Relationship, Explained

Raven from Brooklyn, NY asks:

6/14/16

Ask Agatha: Reckless Flirting, Fronting On Black Twitter, And Wiping While Sitting

Before we dive into this week’s questions, I want to apologize to my constant reader[s] for my absence (hey Kas).…

5/3/16

Ask Agatha: "Is My Girlfriend Just Not That Into Me Anymore?"

***By the time you all read this, I’ll be on an island basking in the sunshine but since one of my faithful readers…

4/12/16

Ask Agatha: "Should I Correct A Black Coworker Who ALWAYS Misuses Words?"

Dylan from Cincinnati, Ohio asks:

3/29/16

Ask Agatha: Things "Aint Shit" People Say And What To Do When Your BF's Friend Hits On You

Deena from Cobb County, GA asks:

3/15/16

Ask Agatha: "I'll Be A Dad Soon, And I'm Worried About What Type Of Dad I'll Be"

Kahlil from Richmond, VA asks:

3/8/16

Ask Agatha: "Help! I'm Dating A One Minute Man!" And Why You Should Never Date A DJ

Laila from Pittsburgh, PA asks:

3/1/16

Ask Agatha: "Unrealistic" Dating Standards And When She's Just Not That Into You

Lisa from Washington, D.C. asks:

2/23/16

Ask Agatha: "Help! I'm A Black Woman Who Struggles Making Friends With Black Women!"

Jamal from Baltimore, MD asks:

2/17/16

Ask Agatha: The Debt-Related Danger Of Accepting Drinks From Men

Kali from Durham, NC asks:

2/9/16

Ask Agatha: "I Like Her, But She Says I'm Just A Friend" And Why "I'm Fine" Is Usually A Lie

Wayne from Edgewater, NJ asks:

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