While we, the audience, may love to see Idris Elba consistently on our screens, the Hijack star recently revealed that his tendency to always want to be booked and busy had led to some βunhealthy habitsβ which prompted him to go to therapy.
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He said as much during a new interview on the Changes with Annie Macmanus podcast, where he shared that heβd been in therapy for about a year trying to find more of a work-life balance. Describing himself as a workaholic, the Beast actor recognized that due to the industry heβs in, working so hard and so much was often rewarded. But now heβs in a place where he wants to find the middle ground between work, play, and family.
βIn my therapy, Iβve been thinking a lot about changing, almost to the point of neuropaths [sic] being changed and shifting,β he said. βItβs not because I donβt like myself or anything like that, itβs just because I have some unhealthy habits that have really formed. And I work in an industry that Iβm rewarded for those unhealthy habits.β
He continued: βNothing thatβs too extreme is good, everything needs balance, but Iβm rewarded massively to be a workaholic [compared] to someone thatβs like βEh, Iβm not going to see my family for six monthsβ and Iβm in there grinding and making a new family and leave them,β he explained. βThose are pathways that I had to be like, βIβve got to adjust.β
He late went on to explain that while heβs getting the help he needs, heβs in a slight conundrum due to the fact that the things that would relax him often look and feel like work, too. But he resolves that heβs going to learn how to normalize what actually makes him feel relaxed and do more of it moving forward.
βThis is the part where Iβve got to normalize what makes me relaxed, it canβt be all work,β he said.
Iβve got to say, while this is hella relatable, you canβt help but wonder: If celebs like Idris can experience burnout and a non-work-life-balance, what hope do the rest of us have? Maybe therapy and other forms of getting our lives back on track is the move and the mood going into 2024.
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