‘I Had No Hair on Me’: DeRay Davis Says He Lost His Virginity at Age 11 to 2 30-Year-Old Women

Vlad TV screenshot
Vlad TV screenshot

A recent interview with comedian DeRay Davis proves that not all pedophiles are men. The comedian recently went on Vlad TV and said he lost his virginity at 11 years old in a threesome with two 30-year-olds who were his mother’s so called friends.


In a 10-minute video recently posted to the site, at around the 6:00 mark, Davis starts talking about his experience after the Vlad interviewer brings up the sexual assault charges that are proliferating in Hollywood and refers to them as “the apocalypse.”

They started talking about the Harvey Weinstein and Terry Crews allegations, and then the story turned to Davis himself.

“I’ve been as a young guy … my mother’s friends ... my mother was involved in a lot of stuff. But I’ve had older women … that have taken advantage of me.”

He called them two “ugly, horrible-looking women.” He said he was “11 going on 12 and had no hair on me.” He called it “disgusting.” He said that to this day, it’s difficult for him to “go down” on women because of what the two women did to him as a child.

He called the women’s vaginas a “scary jungle” and a “terrible place to be” and “made [his] Kool-Aid taste different.”


And though someone in the background laughs and Davis smiles, this really is no laughing matter.

We are thankful to him for sharing his story and hope that he has dealt with his sexual assault—because what happened to him was a rape—as a child.

Ms. Bronner Helm is the Senior Editorial Director at Colorlines. Mouthy Black Girl. Rosalynn Carter Mental Health Fellow. Shea Butter Feminist. Virgo Sun, Aries Moon.



This is why I get pissed off at all these Mary Kay Letourneau wannabes and people’s reactions to them! Idiotic men suggest they wish they’d had a hot teacher on them & don’t understand it was assault, it was rape. People suggest that somehow it doesn’t hurt boys to be molested by women.

Geezus, do you know how many men have a level of disrespect and distrust of women that goes back to some woman or girl fucking with them as a kid? Children are children - trauma affects us all negatively. Soomeone using you & your body as a tool, like you don’t even matter is traumatic! Some process it and move on. However, in a culture where they are told “this doesn’t happen to boys” they can’t even acknowledge their pain & deal with it - much less, move past it!

I am a woman and I know that women aren’t kinder, more nurturing or any of that BS that gets put out there. Women may cause less visible scars, but they still fuck children up.