It seems like every day, there’s a new main topic on social media that has folks up in arms, in awe and deep discourse. This time around, the online chatter centers around a Black woman on TikTok who brought her marital problems to the internet. And as you would expect, it’s causing a whole lot of people to feel a whole bunch of ways.
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To be clear, we’re referring to a recent video posted by a user who goes by Empress Amondi. She shared with her followers over the weekend that she hadn’t spoken to her husband in two weeks. Why? Because she told him to “leave her alone” one day when she wasn’t feeling too well. But instead of giving her some space for a few hours until she got better, her husband allegedly yelled at her for telling him to leave her be and subsequently decided not to speak to her any more… like, at all.
As a result, she ended up sleeping on the couch the first night. But as time progressed, they shared the same bed and did all their usual things together– but without any conversation. To make matters even worse, Amondi shared that her husband ended up blocking her on all his social media pages to further make it clear that they wouldn’t be conversing.
As of the original video’s posting, they both hadn’t spoken to each other at length for two weeks.
Peep her story below.
In a followup video, Amondi said that when her husband pulls similar “bullcrap,” she’s usually the one who always breaks the ice to try to rectify the situation. But in this instance, she’s torn on whether or not to do so again.
“I want to so bad, but I feel like I do it all the time. I feel like I give into his bullcrap and that’s why he does what he does. And it irritates me. So, that’s why I feel like I have to sit this one out,” she explained. “Because if I keep allowing him to do this, he’s going to keep doing it and it’s so irritating.”
Naturally, once Amondi’s video began making its rounds on social media, internet users couldn’t believe what they heard and came to a very swift (though unproven) theory: this lady’s husband is cheating and was just looking for an excuse to pick a fight.
“this lady on tiktok talmbout she hasn’t spoken to her husband in 2 weeks and they live in the same house. maybe im not mature enough for marriage bc by the second day, i’m causing a scene,” wrote one user on X/Twitter.
Another said: “The locks should’ve been changed after he made her sleep on the couch and blocked her on social media. All b/c on a day she didn’t feel well she asked to be left alone.”
Added one other user, “on top of that he blocked her on all social media platforms. Honey he is cheating.”
The latter sentiment eventually found it’s way back on TikTok as well, with many users also hypothesizing that this woman’s husband may be unfaithful and was just looking for a reason to ghost her.
“Your husband is in a new relationship,” wrote one person under Amondi’s video.
“He talking to somebody,” another speculated.
“He is looking for a way out, protect yourself, please,” one other person said.
One user gave Amondi some advice, saying that she should go ahead and call her divorce lawyer sooner rather than later.
Added another user: “Sounds like he was waiting on a reason. U should look deeper into that.”
It didn’t take long for Amondi’s husband to enter the chat. He eventually responded to all the online noise in another TikTok video posted on Tuesday. In it, he shared that his wife “won” and gave a message to other “husbands, boyfriends and significant others.”
“My wife was right, for all you husbands, boyfriends and significant others. Your wife is right, too. Take that bit of advice with you,” he said in part. “I know you guys want to hear my side of the story and some of you want to hear me throw my wife under the bus. Let me tell you something: I don’t have time for foolishness. I don’t have time for games. And I don’t have time for nonsense–and neither should you.”
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