Fun fact: Personally, I’m fawning over the volume (the length didn’t even register to me, but the health and density did). But maybe that’s just me.

Whether or not she chooses to wear a lesser-known designer is entirely her prerogative. It worked out beautifully for me (who was also lesser known). But really, having that choice is the issue here. The lack of options for such a large percentage of the population is troubling. She should be able to choose a designer…

Epic.

I was actually a sophomore in college when that film came out, so modeling wasn’t even on my radar yet. That said, I don’t recall any of us ever discussing it.

I think you misunderstood. The commenter was pointing out how strange it was that anyone in Jezebel’s comment section took issue with Rexha’s complaint or questioned her relevance.

I can’t speak for anyone else, but I was far more offended by the insult/tone than the dissenting opinion (which I assume was Vegas’s intent). Perhaps others were, too.

A vast majority of major designers loan or make custom gowns gratis for buzzworthy artists and influencers attending highly publicized events like the Grammys. It’s pretty standard, as they get massive exposure from doing so, so it’s not entirely unreasonable for someone with Rexha’s following to expect the same…

Right. Now we’re entirely dancing around the point, which is that while many luxury designers make clothing in a broad range of sizes, they don’t want to be publicly identified with anyone over a certain size.

Oh, I loved it (and still have it tucked away in my closet). In my case, it really did work out for the best. But I vividly remember the stress of trying to find an outfit, so my empathy for Rexha is strong.

Because of the high-visibility of awards shows, it’s not customary for nominees to wear off-the-rack items; they’re generally either custom-made or yet-to-be released items or versions of items from upcoming collections. This is particularly true for artists from major labels, like Rexha.

Fun fact: Even Valentino cuts up to a 14. If the Grammys aren’t considered a worthy market for a luxury brand—particularly a televised and highly watched category like “Best New Artist,” I’d question their marketing strategy.

Sheer fabrics are notoriously difficult. Also my weakest sewing skill.

I’m going to ignore your baseless insult and simply say this: Fashion is a business. If you’re excluding 68% of your potential market, you’re not a savvy businessperson—or a particularly skilled designer.

I saw those comments. In addition to her own hits, this woman has co-written some major songs for bigger artists. And again, any basic Google search could tell them what the returns might be on exposure to her base. Many of these same designers are paying influencers with less social media following than her.

Exactly.

Gross.

Dude. You are not alone on that journey.

I was specifically referring to the size/styling of the scarf as well as the motif, but points taken.

I went through this 10 years ago as a size 8 nominee and ended up having something custom made. Sad that despite all the so-called moves toward inclusion in the decade since, we’re still having this conversation.

That’s a lovely and appreciated compliment. Thank you so much.