13-Year-Old California Girl, Victim of Bullying, Takes Her Own Life

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A California family had to say goodbye to their 13-year-old daughter over the weekend when the teenager was taken off life support Friday after attempting to take her own life.

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Rosalie Avila, an eighth-grader at Mesa View Middle School, reportedly took her own life after years of bullying at the hands of her peers. The Yucaipa, Calif., school mourned her death with a candlelight vigil attended by hundreds of Avilaโ€™s peers, teachers and loved ones, according to NBC San Diego.

The 13-year-old was described as a loving girl who was a great artist and always got good grades. Her dream was to become a lawyer to make the world a better place, but now that potential will never be realized.

โ€œMy daughter had the whole world,โ€ her father, Freddie Avila, said. โ€œNow I just have to think about what she could have done or what she could have become. Now itโ€™s just a memory.โ€

Rosalie attempted to take her own life Nov. 28.

โ€œI woke up and there was screaming,โ€ he said. โ€œI had to find my daughter ... in her room.โ€

She was rushed to the Loma Linda Childrenโ€™s Hospital in extremely critical condition and was ultimately taken off life support Dec. 1.

Rosalieโ€™s aunt told the news station that the school knew that Rosalie was being bullied and she was also in counseling. She kept a journal detailing how she was bullied and naming those who were mean to her.

โ€œโ€˜They told me I was ugly today,โ€™โ€ her father recalled reading in the journal, CBS Los Angeles reports. โ€œโ€˜They were making fun of me today about my teeth.โ€™โ€

The school sent out a statement expressing sympathy for the โ€œheartbreak and confusionโ€ over Rosalieโ€™s death.

โ€œNo one can fathom the heartbreak and confusion that we are certain many of our students and families are feeling right now,โ€ the statement read. โ€œCrisis counselors and intervention teams will be available and supporting our students throughout the district in the upcoming days.โ€

Except it appears that at least some students donโ€™t need crisis counselors, although they definitely need counselors of some sort because not only do the Avilas have to cope with the loss of their daughterโ€”they apparently are now being bullied themselves.

The family has reportedly received a message on social media with photos of Rosalie stating, โ€œHey mom. Next time donโ€™t tuck me in this,โ€ with reference to a bed. โ€œTuck me in THIS,โ€ the image says, featuring an arrow pointing to an open grave.

โ€œFor you to do that, I mean, youโ€™re heartless. Youโ€™re a very heartless person, and you have no compassion,โ€ Rosalieโ€™s mom, Charlene, told CBSLA.

The Avilas have handed Rosalieโ€™s journal over to the police and are pushing for the school district to do something about bullying.

โ€œI did everything Iโ€™m supposed to do as a father, and these people did not respond, because those bullies are still at the school,โ€ Freddie said. โ€œTheyโ€™re still there, and my daughterโ€™s gone.โ€

Read more at NBC San Diego and CBS Los Angeles.

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