ladygodiva83
Jennifer Neal
ladygodiva83
Jennifer is a writer, journalist, stand-up comedian and social critic who writes about politics, culture, gender, race and travel. She lives in Berlin where she is writing her first novel.

The thermal baths are dope squared. Good call.

I had to do a double take to filter for sarcasm or facetiousness. I detected neither. Thank you.

Lolz. He’s a cool-ass dude, but he’s also crazy in love with a pretty young lady. Sorry.

A lot more people speak English there now, but venture outside of Budapest and...well, you’re on your own.

I don’t think the people I interviewed in this article were “chasing better white people.” One was born there, the other one moved there to be with her husband and raise a family. Both are also aware of double standards regarding race, and Abigail is especially aware of those intersections that also affect gender.

I don’t really see it that way. Flirting isn’t right or wrong, but another extension of cultural norms and practices. I really enjoy being the instigator in a flirtation, and in Germany, men enjoy it back. Same in Stockholm - where societies are more egalitarian, there’s less of an expectation for men to perform

Thank you so much! I am grateful to have found the BiB group, whom have made all the difference in the experience here. It really takes a community to make a place as cold as Berlin feel like home.

Absolutely - the racism here is SEVERE. I mean, it’s technically the ancestral home of racism, so that shouldn’t be surprising (though it definitely was to me in the beginning.)

Lol They don’t talk to anyone. FACT - German men do NOT know how to flirt! That’s an article all its own - but for artists? Heaven.

All things being equal (haha...I know) I genuinely believe that there would be a mass exodus. If the option were available and on the table, why shouldn’t it be an option? It’s not exactly an ancestral homeland - and the ideation behind picking a new one is a remarkably freeing and cathartic process.

I don’t think there’s any danger of that happening. Frankfurt is the financial district of Germany, and most of the jobs leaving London after Brexit are relocating there. Berlin is just a poor, fabulous hipster town.

Berlin loves you back!