“The Bachelor” alum Onyeka Ehie probably thought she had finally found the man of her dreams after leaving the ABC Network reality dating competition series. But now, Ehie is spilling all the tea about her ex, Martin Fredsgaard Andersen, who she accused of scamming her and her family big time.
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On Nov. 14, Ehie took to TikTok for a 28-part story she dubbed “The Danish Deception.” The saga bares similarities to Reesa Teesa’s viral “Who TF Did I Marry?” series last year, but Ehie’s story is nothing anyone could have imagined.
Fans first met Ehie in 2019 during Colton Underwood’s season of “The Bachelor.” After leaving the show, she met her now-ex, Andersen, in 2022. They got engaged in April 2024, but by September 2025, Ehie confirmed they were over. “I have canceled the weddings and Martin and I are no longer together,” she wrote.
She began the series explaining how they met while in Croatia. “We’re minding our business, sipping mojitos, when I look up and see this very attractive man,” Ehie said in the TikTok. “The first thing I thought was, ‘This man looks like he’s walking straight out of a Calvin Klein ad.’”
After exchanging information, the pair continued seeing each other and even took a trip to Monaco. Ehie said she was falling for Andersen, adding she “truly believed he was gonna be the love of my life and the father of my children. And I now believe him to be the most despicable, two-faced, narcissistic, evil person I’ve ever encountered in my entire life.”
Early in their relationship, Ehie alleged Andersen would repeatedly ask her for money to help out a friend’s investment or to pay someone back. He allegedly even encouraged her to quit her six-figure job, which she agreed to on the promise that he would support them; surprise, surprise: that didn’t happen. Still, the couple got married quickly and made it all the way to Christmas before the other shoe dropped.
That’s when Andersen’s best friend revealed he had a gambling addiction. Andersen allegedly downplayed his friend’s accusation, adding it was all in his past. Ehie— who had lent him over $6,000— trusted her man, but said she’d soon found out the hard way what he was really doing behind her back.
Not only had one of her friends loaned Andersen $200,000 for an alleged crypto deal— which he never paid back, Ehie claimed— but Ehie had also given him access to her credit card, where he allegedly stole $7,000. Meanwhile, Ehie was willing to work things out, believing it was her duty to help him overcome his gambling problem.
After a private investigation and several conversations with Andersen’s friends and family, Ehie finally understood what she was up against. She even accused him of stealing money from her friends and family. “It was the most heartbreaking moment in my entire life,” Ehie said. “My little sister is my world, and to know he took advantage of her, was just so heartbreaking. At that moment, I, 100 percent, fell out of love with him.”
Many sympathized with Ehie. @minuteswithtee said on TikTok, “He really met the right one because this is the end of his deception.”
Still, others like @leah.green couldn’t believe how far Ehie let the alleged scam continue. “She’s a realtor and didn’t verify any of his info? Not buying it,” she wrote on the app.
“I think she was forced out into the open with his story because she is financially responsible for any lawsuits for him for the next 10 years,” @hardbackheaven said.
“It feels like you only came to the internet after he left you because you want to shame him into coming home, which feels like you still want to be with him,” @iamaricari1 said.
They officially divorced this year. Ehie’s series has gone viral online, with well over one million views. Andersen has not spoken publicly about her accusations against him.
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