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With Actors Denzel and Pauletta Washington announcing their decades-long marriage, we decided to look at other Black love stories that have endured. Let’s face it, marriage is not easy. But it’s even harder when you’re a celebrity and have millions of people analyzing every photo and social media post looking for a sign that something just ain’t right.

But believe it or not, there are plenty of Black celebrity couples who have managed to weather the storms. If there was ever any doubt about whether love can last in the limelight, these Black celebrity couples give us hope.

Denzel Washington & Pauletta Washington

Actors Denzel and Pauletta Washington first met in 1977 on the set of Denzel’s first movie, Wilma, and eventually said “I do” in June 1983.

The couple, who just celebrated 41 years of marriage and have four children together, say the key to their successful relationship can be summed up in one word – work.

“We work at it. It’s work,” Pauletta recently told PEOPLE. “There are a lot of prayers for strength for staying in a forgiveness mode and both parts, mine and his. But it’s the basic love that we have for each other.”

Angela Bassett & Courtney B. Vance

Actors Angela Bassett and Courtney B. Vance met while students at the Yale School of Drama in the 1980s, but they didn’t start dating until a chance encounter in Los Angeles in 1994. Bassett said it was her first kiss with Vance that gave her all the feels.

“I got pinpricks and chills up the back of my thighs and across my butt, up my neck and across my scalp,” she wrote in the couple’s book, “Friends: A Love Story.”

The pair got married in 1997 and are parents to 18-year-old fraternal twins Bronwyn Golden and Slater Josiah.

Barack Obama & Michelle Obama

Barack and Michelle Obama are one of the most powerful couples in politics, but they also have an amazing love story that spans over three decades.

The two met in 1988 when Barack was a summer associate at a corporate law firm in Chicago where Michelle was his mentor. The pair eventually tied the knot in 1992 and are parents to daughters Malia and Sasha Obama.

Although the couple admits there have been some bumps in the road along the way, they say marriage has been a whole lot easier since they’ve moved out of 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue.

“It sure helps to be out of the White House, and to have a little more time with her,” the former President told CBS News in a 2023 interview.

Viola Davis & Julius Tennon

Actors Viola Davis and Julius Tennon have been married for over 20 years. The couple met in 1999 on the set of City of Angels and were married in 2003. In a 2022 interview with Oprah Winfrey, Davis revealed that meeting Tennon was literally the answer to her prayers.

“I said I want a big Black man from the South who’s probably been married before. Has kids, because I don’t want any pressure in that department,” she said. “Someone who goes to church and loves God. I said, ‘If you give me that, I’ll start going to church, God. I really will.’”

Jay-Z & Beyoncé

After dating for nearly eight years, music power couple Jay-Z and Beyoncé shocked everyone when they got married at a top-secret ceremony in 2008. As Bey told Oprah in a 2013 interview, their long-time friendship provided a solid base for their marriage.

“We were friends first for a year and a half before we went on any dates. We were on the phone for a year and a half, and that foundation is so important for a relationship. Just to have someone who you just like is so important, and someone [who] is honest,” she said.

The entertainers/entrepreneurs are parents to three children, Blue Ivy and twins Rumi and Sir.

Al Roker & Deborah Roberts

TODAY weatherman Al Roker and journalist Deborah Roberts met in 1990 when Roberts worked as a reporter for NBC, but as the couple recalls, Roberts initially put Roker in the friend zone.

According to Roker, things changed when he left a surprise in her apartment while she was away covering the Olympics in 1992. Noticing that she barely had anything more than a jar of mustard, the weatherman left her fridge full of groceries along with flowers and a note. The couple eventually began dating and got married in 1995.

Spike Lee & Tonya Lewis Lee

It didn’t take long for Spike Lee and Tonya Lewis Lee to know they were right for each other. After meeting at an event in Washington, D.C. in 1992 (while Lee was on a date with another woman!), the couple got married just one year later.

But it all worked out in the end for the Lees who have two children together, Satchel and Jackson Lee

Rodney Peete and Holly Robinson Peete

Holly Robinson Peete and husband, former NFL player Rodney Peete have faced many ups and downs since they tied the knot in 1995, including their oldest son RJ’s autism diagnosis at age three. But the actress said that their love and commitment to their family kept them going, even in the darkest times.

“It’s just really all about committing to being on the same page and committing to fight for what’s important for us,” she told Us Weekly, in a February 2024 interview.

LL Cool J & Simone I. Smith

Ladies may love Cool James, but he’s been married to his wife Simone – co-founder of Simone I. Smith Jewelry.– since 1995. The Queens, NY natives met as teenagers in 1987 and their relationship has survived many ups and downs, including Simone’s cancer diagnosis in 2004.

“You don’t abandon someone in that fox hole,” the Rock and Roll Hall of Famer told Oprah in an interview. “You gotta be there in that fox hole with them.”

LL and Simone have four children together.

Boris Kodjoe & Nicole Ari Parker

The only thing more beautiful than Nicole Ari Parker and Boris Kodjoe is their love story. The couple met while working together on the set of the Showtime series Soul Food in 2000 and eventually tied the knot in 2005.

In a 2020 interview with Fox Soul, Kodjoe said that although he and Parker took their time getting to know each other before they entered into a romantic relationship, he always knew she was going to have a special place in his life.

“After I had gotten to know her and had fallen in love with her, I knew that she was going to be my wife,” he said.

Parker and Kodjoe have two children together. 

Dondré Whitfield & Salli Richardson

Actors Dondré Whitfield and Salli Richardson Whitfield just celebrated their 22nd wedding anniversary.

“Who knew that the guy I met 27 years ago walking down the stairs of his TV show, Between Brothers, would become my husband?” she captioned a September 8 Instagram post. “I couldn’t have asked for a better life partner. God has blessed us with everything that we need. Healthy, smart, kind and beautiful children and a partnership that will last forever.”

Magic Johnson & Cookie Johnson

Former NBA star Ervin “Magic” Johnson met his now-wife Cookie when the two were students at Michigan State University in the 1970s. But as the pair admits, they did a lot of breaking up and making up before eventually getting married in 1991.

Just a few months after tying the knot, the couple was rocked with the devastating news of Johnson’s HIV diagnosis. Cookie stayed by Magic’s side and as he admits, is one of the reasons he is still alive today.

“The reason I live today, and the reason I work as hard today, is for my wife and my family,” he told PEOPLE in September 2016.

Ossie Davis & Ruby Dee

When it comes to beautiful Black love stories, Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee have one for the ages. From the stage to the screen, the actors often worked together, appearing in over 50 films, including the Spike Lee joints “Do The Right Thing” and “Jungle Fever.”

Davis and Dee were married for 56 years until Davis passed away in 2005.