How Well Do You Know Yourself? Would You Date You?
Step outside yourself for a moment. Imagine you are a friend who has to set someone up on a blind date with your friend…
New Year, New Me—But for Real This Time
Seventeen days into 2019, I am still reflecting on what I want for myself this year and how I am going to go about…
Our Aunties Oprah and Gayle Just Talked About Sex, and Now We Feel Weird
There are certain scenarios you just never want to envision, like Donald Trump doing naked double dutch, or Kevin Hart…
A Couple Photographed Themselves Having Sex at the Great Pyramid and I Have Questions
A couple who took selfies while engaged in what appears to be a sexual act atop one of the Eight Wonders of the World…
How Janet Jackson’s janet. Made a Man Out of Me
Janet Jackson’s janet. could not have come out at a more critical time in my life. It was the summer of 1993 (the album…
Talking Dirty to My Mom
The other night, I was having a phone conversation with my mother, catching her up on everything that had been going on…
Sex on the 1st Date: Yes or No?
There was a time when sex on the first date was considered taboo. Is that still a thing?
5 Things Men Need to Understand About Foreplay
Last week, over chicken wings and tequila, one of my girlfriends relayed a story to me that was hilarious, embarrassing…
A Woman-to-Woman Conversation About a Man Is Not Always the Move
“Hello? May I speak to Barbara? Barbara, this is Shirley.” So begins a classic R&B song where one sista reaches out to…
Life Lessons: Eat a Booty, Save a Life
While promoting her new book, We’re Going to Need More Wine, last week, actress Gabrielle Union chatted with Sway in…
Ask Agatha: I Can’t Orgasm During Sex. What Should I Do?
Jillian from Atlanta asks:
No, Open and Nonmonogamous Relationships Are Not Just for White People
Show of hands: Who here was raised to believe that the only healthy, positive relationships are ones that are…
5 Questions About the Southern University Sex-Tape Scandal
In case you haven’t heard, there is a Southern University sex-tape scandal that is making the rounds on social media.…
No Romance Without … Resistance?
Come again? In a recent interview with Marie Claire, singer Janelle Monáe discussed her ideas when it comes to…
Unique Views Podcast, Episode 15: Nasty Woman Featuring Sexpert Michelle Hope
I am not a bragger. That's not my thing. One of my awesome-est traits is how humble I am.
Relationship Hall Passes Are Dumb, Like Jordan-Playing-Baseball Kinda Dumb
Warning: Sports analogies ahead …
‘Selling Hot P--sy’: Strippers Talk Sexuality, Misogyny and Stereotypes
Strip clubs have dominated the black pop-culture scene for decades, with Atlanta being the central hub. So much of what…
An Investigation On Why Good Sex Sometimes Sounds Exactly Like Mac And Cheese Being Stirred
It is an indisputable fact that sex, when its good, often sounds eerily similar to a serving spoon stirring a pot of…
Ask Agatha: "Should I Correct A Black Coworker Who ALWAYS Misuses Words?"
Dylan from Cincinnati, Ohio asks:
The Worst People To Walk In On You Having Sex, Ranked
Last week, I had a conversation with someone about whether it would be worse for your parents or your children to catch…