breaking up
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Ask Agatha: "I Want My Ex Back, But She Moved Across The Country. Should I Fly Out There?"
Jomo from Pittsburgh, PA asks: My ex and I broke up months ago but I think I want her back. I want another chance. What should I do Agie? Do I just send a text and hope she replies? Do I send flowers? I mean I would just go to her apartment and knock on…
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Ask Agatha: The Rationale Behind "Ghosting" On A Relationship, Explained
Raven from Brooklyn, NY asks: We met a year ago at a house party in Bmore. I sat next to him on the couch because he had prime real estate by the lone fan (and because he was sexy as hell). He introduced himself. And we soon discovered we were both from Brooklyn. We spent…
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If I Give You A Kidney, We Pretty Much Go Together Forever
Typically, I’m not a big fan of owing people shit once a relationship ends. Like, I don’t owe you to wait before I jump into a new relationship with somebody else. I don’t owe you to not bang your mother if she puts it out there. I mean, I probably shouldn’t bang your mother anywa.…
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Ask Agatha: Being The Only Black Person At Work, And Busting Windows Out Of Cars
Ashley from Harlem, NY asks: I’ve recently been added to the strategic planning committee at my company. I’m the most junior member and I’m a woman and I’m black. I suspect adding me to the committee was for diversity purposes and not because they expect me to make any real contributions. I admit I feel…