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Kandi Burruss and Tamar Braxton’s Feud, Explained

For years, the two R&B and reality stars have gone back and forth in the public eye.

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Will Kandi Burruss and Tamar Braxton ever see eye to eye? Not likely. The two reality TV icons and music legends have been in a feud for what seems like ages now, dating back to their days on โ€œCelebrity Big Brotherโ€ together to just this week, when Braxton was on โ€œThe Breakfast Club,โ€ once again trying to decipher why the two just canโ€™t seem to get on the same page.

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While Burruss has stepped away from โ€œThe Real Housewivesโ€ and is busy producing some of the biggest hits on Broadway, Braxton is also enjoying continued success, including the return of her familyโ€™s massively popular reality series โ€œThe Braxtons,โ€ as well as her music career. While we have no idea if or when these two may finally be able to bury the hatchet, weโ€™re breaking down every moment that led us to this point, from their time together on CBB to today.

Two Big Names in R&B

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As we mentioned, both Burruss and Braxton came up together around the same time, with Kandiโ€™s band Xscape and Tamarโ€™s The Braxtons (consisting of Tamar and her sisters Toni, Tawanda, and the late Traci), appearing on the charts in the 90s at the same time.

Running in the Same Circles

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The music industry, like most, is small, and the two for sure ran in the same circles, as Braxton confirmed while on โ€œCelebrity Big Brother.โ€ The two have known each other officially for over 30 years, Braxton confirmed on The Breakfast Club. It was a professional endeavor, however, that seemingly changed the course of their relationship forever.

The Great Xscape Reunion Tour

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From what we can gather, things really took a turn during 2017's โ€œThe Great Xscape Tour,โ€ which saw the band embark on a nationwide tour alongside Braxton and Monica. While it was not common knowledge that by the end of the tour there was tension between Xscape and Braxton, when the two appeared on โ€œCelebrity Big Brotherโ€ in 2019, everything came to a head, and an audience of millions got a front-row seat for this feud.

Celebrity Big Brother Fallout

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While on the popular reality series, Braxton claimed the tour was โ€œhorribleโ€ for her amid marriage and career woes. She also claimed Burruss โ€œpersonally interjectedโ€ herself into Braxtonโ€™s issues, saying she was โ€œtalking crazyโ€ about her when she should have โ€œjust said nothing.โ€ She said to Burruss, โ€œFrom my perspective, it was totally, utterly disrespectful and unprofessional.โ€

Burruss, however, was not having any of it. โ€œTamar thinks that our group was purposely trying to be mean to her, we were purposely trying to mess up her set,โ€ she explained in a confessional. โ€œBut the bottom line is we would not do all of those things on purpose to make her life bad on the tour. We were happy that she was there. So whatever sheโ€™s thinking is clearly a misunderstanding.โ€

Braxton was not backing down, going so far as to call Burruss and her group โ€œunprofessional.โ€ When Burruss started laughing, the situation got even worse, with Braxton getting upset at her chuckles. Ultimately, what happened was a classic case of she said, she said, and we may never know exactly what went down to get these two to such a point of no return.

Years Later, the Feud Continues

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Years after their time on โ€œCelebrity Big Brother,โ€ their feud began once again, this time after Burruss claimed that former โ€œRHOAโ€ producer Carlos King was attempting to make an Xscape biopic without her or the group knowing. Since the story became a hot topic, Braxton talked about it on Dish Nation, but defended King, saying that she doesnโ€™t agree with Burruss calling King โ€œa thief.โ€

Tamar Shades Kandiโ€™s Singing

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Braxton then found herself in the comments of The Shade Room, taking yet another dig at Burruss. โ€œImagine having the biggest ego for the most non singing a** person in the music industry,โ€ Tamar wrote in the comments. โ€œStream my new hit song #changed where I pay homage to the AMAZING swv!!โ€

Tamar Claims a Real Housewife of Atlanta โ€˜Threatenedโ€™ Her

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Months later, things took yet another turn, when Braxton took to her Instagram with a pretty serious claim. The โ€œLove and Warโ€ singer wrote, โ€œI was threatened by a [peach emoji] and they manโ€ฆ. Itโ€™s BEEF and itโ€™s a REAL BEEF cause yo HUSBAND stepped to me! Periodt!โ€ Naturally, everyone assumed the peach was Burruss, referring to her role as a Real Housewife of Atlanta, and the man her husband, Todd Tucker.

Tamar Confirms the โ€˜Housewifeโ€™ was Allegedly Kandi

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Braxton eventually said that it happened to Andy Cohen, the big Bravo boss, himself on Watch What Happens, Live! โ€œIt really did happen, Iโ€™m not lying,โ€ she told the host. โ€œLike, Iโ€™m not looking for attention or drama or anything like that, but that sโ€“t really happened, it was not cute.โ€

Kandi Claps Back

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After Braxtonโ€™s appearance on WWHL, Burruss took to Instagram, seemingly shading Braxton once again. Burruss shared a clip from โ€œThe Addams Family,โ€ when Wednesday Adams refers to another girl as being a โ€œvictim all her life,โ€ before pushing her in a pool.

Tamar Doubles Down

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In a swift response on Instagram, Tamar doubled down, saying that the alleged moment โ€œobviously happenedโ€ and that she is โ€œdone talking about it.โ€ She wrote in the now-deleted post, โ€œkandi wants to deflect and condone her manโ€™s behavior by calling me a โ€˜victimโ€™ (smh)โ€ฆ.itโ€™s abusive and disrespectful and itโ€™s NEVER OK FOR A MAN TO STEP TO A WOMAN!!! Fans donโ€™t have to agree!! PERIODT!!โ€

Kandi Addresses Resurfaced Tamar Comment

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Now, nearly two years after their last back and forth, the two seem to be at it again. In a recent interview with Entertainment Tonight, Burruss was asked if she would bring Tamar to appear on a reboot of her series, โ€œKandi and the Gang,โ€ especially after a resurfaced clip of Braxton disparaging Burrusโ€™ Atlanta-based restaurant has gone viral online.

When asked if she can still believe that Tamar is โ€œstill on her,โ€ Burruss replied, โ€œIโ€™m not playing games with clowns. Iโ€™m not about to be in the circus with [her]โ€ฆnever again.โ€

Tamar Breaks Down Feud on The Breakfast Club

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On Friday (March 28), Braxton reacted to the โ€œclownโ€ comment from Burruss, and attempted herself to finally break down what exactly got them to this point. โ€œIโ€™m not gonna really get into it because I donโ€™t want to muster up the situation,โ€ she explained while adding that they โ€œwouldnโ€™t be hereโ€ if she โ€œwasnโ€™t lied on.โ€ โ€œThatโ€™s my thing. I can deal with anything, but donโ€™t lie on me.โ€

She added, โ€œShe chose to call me a clown, and that pissed me offโ€ฆBut what I donโ€™t want to do is continue that conversation and take away from all the hard work that I have been doing these past couple of years and make it about a beef I donโ€™t have, personally, currently.โ€

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