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Cox recently spoke to The Guardian’s Observer Magazine about living alone during the pandemic and her subsequent struggle to combat negative thoughts and self-talk during this difficult time.

I remember thinking, ‘This is a spiritual opportunity.’ Ha! Oh Laverne, you’re so full of it! Turns out it was the hardest year of my life. When I’m alone I can be really hard on myself. I’ve caught myself saying the most atrocious things to myself, things I would never say if I was out in the world. ‘You’re so ugly’…Vicious, cruel things. Things that, if I said them to a child, then the child would be taken away from me. But, we all have a child inside us, so.”

What helps? “This sounds so corny. OK. I stand by the mirror and say, ‘You’re so amazing.’ I say, ‘You got through that, that’s incredible. So many people are still struggling in ways you don’t struggle any more. You’ve accomplished so much, you’ve grown so much. So many trans people have said their lives are better because of you.’ I stand in the mirror and say, ‘Laverne, you should be so proud.’”