Would you refuse to go to the Cheesecake Factory for a first date? If so, at least one person on this planet agrees with you. Earlier this month, a TikToker went viral for refusing to leave the car when a date brought her to the fast-casual chain.
Personally, I love their Chicken Costoletta and brown bread, but Cheesecake Factory-gate has sparked a massive discussion about what is or isn’t an acceptable place to bring someone for a first date. Even the View hosts got into it this week, with Sonny Hostin declaring that the dairy-forward chain has “the best dirty martini.” (It’s also worth noting that Cheesecake Factory has a practically unlimited menu selection).
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Now, a viral list is going around of unacceptable spots for a first date. And some of our favorites over at The Root are on there:
Cheesecake Factory
Applebee’s
Chili’s
Chipotle
Olive Garden
The Movies
Your House
Any Fast Food Chain
Buffalo Wild Wings
Wingstop
Red Lobster
A Buffet
IHOP
Denny’s
The gym
Church
Starbucks
Coffee dates
Ice cream dates
Family functions
Movie night (Netflix, Hulu, and etc.)
Somewhere that requires a long drive
Bowling
Nightclubs
Hookah Bar
A bar for just-drinks
Waffle House
Sports events
While some of these no-go spots make sense (do not take me to meet your family on the first date), others seem like perfectly acceptable first-date ideas. Although it’s been a while since I’ve been on a first date, meeting someone at a bar for drinks or grabbing some ice cream seems like a delightful idea. (Who doesn’t love ice cream!!!?)
But what do you, our dear readers, think? Would you enjoy any of these first dates, or would you demand a five-star dining experience? We promise we’re not judging either way!
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