

Ebony relationship expert Sil Lai Abrams looks at what constitutes an abusive relationship, the definition of domestic violence and the markers of situational relationship violence.
In a piece for Ebony, relationship expert and anti-domestic violence activist Sil Lai Abrams examines some of the most disturbing responses to the latest news surrounding the reality-television couple.
Sil Lai Abrams, Ebony's relationship expert, says that black women overwhelmed by negative messages about their prospects for love (or lack thereof) should date whomever they want but should resist falling for the pop-culture myth of the white man as a savior.