She Matters: This writer wishes someone had told her these things at her commencement.
Ask Demetria: Just because a guy earns as much as you doesn't mean he's free of insecurities.
She Matters: His pimp persona wasn't just for show. He should be ashamed, but he's not.
Ask Demetria: How he introduces you to friends and family does say something about your relationship.
She Matters: As Bill Duke's film on colorism comes to TV, we need civil discourse on the issue.
Ask Demetria: When your boyfriend fights with his relatives, it's important to know your role.
She Matters: Even in 2013, there are some who still believe that a man can do it better.
Ask Demetria: Giving stepparents a role in disciplining children is key to a happy blended family.
She Matters: It's really none of our business whether a celebrity is in the closet or not.
In a piece for Clutch magazine, The Root's contributing editor Demetria L. Lucas says the rapper clearly needs something, but it's not for us to gawk and laugh at his situation.