The Perilous Politics of Hair
March 25, 2008 -- How my box braids kept me out of a waitressing job in a rapidly gentrifying America. Also on TheRoot.com, another writer explains why he decided, after 13 years, to cut off his locks.
March 25, 2008 -- A strange and sad thing happened to me on my job search this year. I missed out on an opportunity not because of my skills, but because of my hair. I was looking for a little extra money for college this past February, so I applied for a job at my old place of employment, Ruby Tuesday. I had worked there last year as a server, and the restaurant in downtown DC was undergoing a facelift—along with the surrounding Chinatown neighborhood – so I thought it might be fun to return there.
When I sat down to have an interview with the general manager, he seemed enthusiastic to have me come back as he discussed all the changes that the restaurant was going through. One of those "changes" surprised, confused and angered me: In order to get hired there, I was told, I would have to remove my braids from my hair.
At the time, I wore multiple braids in my hair also known as "box braids" or "micros." The manager told me that the new policy with respect to hairstyles reflected the company position nationwide. No twists or dreads were acceptable either. A year earlier I had worn braids as a Ruby Tuesday employee. Now, after the restaurant had undergone an "upgrade," my braided hair style was no longer acceptable?
I was angry and sad all at the same time. If the company had deemed braids, dreads and twists "unacceptable," what were they saying about my culture?
I called the corporate office to see if it was true, and, sure enough, the person on the other end of the phone told me that it wasn't a "race thing," but rather an "image" thing. At that point I was thinking, "these people must think I am a fool."
The next day, I contacted Gregory Carr, a professor of African American Studies at Howard University, where I am a sophomore. He said that, without a doubt, the policy was discriminatory and advised me to seek legal counsel.
I contacted a lawyer and started a petition against the policy. Over the course of two days, more than 500 students, faculty and staff at Howard signed it. Various students told me that they made phone calls to the corporate office to protest the policy.
My cause drew some interest from the media. In an interview with National Newspaper Publishers Association Editor-in-Chief Hazel Trice Edney, a spokesperson for Ruby Tuesday, in a tape-recorded interview in late February, defended the policy, then called the reporter back to say it was a "misinterpretation" by the local management.
The restaurant later announced that they had "reversed" the policy, but I do not think that is enough. I would still like to see the restaurant address the issue nationwide, with a clarification of the policy and a statement that the direction adopted by the Ruby Tuesday where I had my encounter was wrong.
My hair is 100 percent natural, never touched by a relaxer or texture enhancers. Occasionally, I will hot comb my hair, but I do not think that it is fair that we, as African Americans, should be forced to "conform" to popular society.
From D.C. to Harlem, neighborbood gentrification is replacing black-owned mom and pop stores with national chains, stripping black neighborhoods of their unique character and culture. Has the process of "upgrading" neighborhoods moved to erasing personal expressions of black character and culture as well?
I, for one, will do everything in my power to keep that from happening.
Grace Salvant is a public relations student at Howard University in Washington, D.C.
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View All Comments »rjeiel536 at 04/05/2008 3:59:07 PM
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I have worked a a kitchen designer in Colorado for 4 years, wearing my hair natural
The response has been positive. I was shocked while living a short time in Georgia to find constant comment and negative response from both black and white. I was asked constantly about my hair when people met me. And was more than once if I had ever considered a weave. Colorado is only 4% black, yet they seem more accepting of natural black hair than Georgia with 29%.
oahu762003 at 04/04/2008 7:19:22 AM
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I, too, sing America.
I am the darker brother.
They send me to eat in the kitchen
When company comes,
But I laugh,
And eat well,
And grow strong.
Tomorrow,
I'll be at the table
When company comes.
Nobody'll dare
Say to me,
"Eat in the kitchen,"
Then.
Besides,
They'll see how beautiful I am (dreads, locks, afro and all)
And be ashamed--
I, too, am America.
Langston Hughes
"Maybe one day, Langston."
Elizabeth A at 04/03/2008 2:10:26 PM
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This is the same issue that faces all women everywhere. To get jobs our hair has to conform. In my career, I must wear my very long hair in some ridiculous bun, because, of course, long hair is a sign of my femininity and what does the professional world loathe? Women. What do they love? Men. So, what do I have to do to get a job? Be as close to the ideal, man, as I can be. Sadly, there is no "written policy" that I can challenge. The policy is the policy of the inherent sexism that is systemic. Kudos to you for the challenge, but sadly, it probably did nothing...you and I will still never be men.