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NOVEMBER 30 | NBC Heroes Employee Says There's Too Much Diversity in Hollywood

NOVEMBER 29 | Black Conservative Doesn't Want Oprah to Interview Obama on Christmas

NOVEMBER 28 | Peru Apologizes for Mistreatment of Afro-Peruvians

One man's opinion on very nearly everything. It's hard but it's fair.

DECEMBER 2 | Ten Things You Could Learn from Tiger Woods

DECEMBER 2 | Aunt Jemima and Politics in Darktown

NOVEMBER 24 | Meet The Parents

Manners and mores in modern life? It's about way more than where the fork goes.

DECEMBER 3 | Desiree Rogers' Teachable Moment

NOVEMBER 28 | The Tipping Factor

NOVEMBER 24 | The Turkey Is The Least of It

From finance to foreclosures, layoffs and lack of opportunity, a daily journal of the economic crisis and its effect on black professionals.

NOVEMBER 27 | Making The Most With Less This Christmas

NOVEMBER 25 | Young, Black, and Out of Work

NOVEMBER 24 | Have Blacks Been Shafted By The Stimulus?

Smart, up to the minute takes on politics--from the state house to the White House. Pull up a chair.

JANUARY 21 | Hillary Clinton Stands Up For Internet Diplomacy

JANUARY 20 | SATISFACTION, PRIDE OR DELIRIUM?

JANUARY 17 | Would Martin Luther King Get Out the Vote in Massachusetts?

Engaging commentary, interviews, and reviews that delve into and beyond the world of books. Get read.

NOVEMBER 25 | Conversation for the Dinner Table

NOVEMBER 19 | Reading List: The Poetry Edition

NOVEMBER 12 | Publishing with the Stars

A daily conversation on hot topic culture items. From Zora to Zane, True Blood to Tiny & Toya, TEWW covers high art, low-brow culture and everything in between.

FEBRUARY 5 | Thoughts on a Black Female "Living Legend": Mikki Taylor of Essence Magazine

JANUARY 26 | OMG Look at Your Hair!

JANUARY 25 | Tatyana Ali Misses the Target With "Love That Girl"

One woman's journey to shed 100 pounds in one year.

FEBRUARY 9 | Finding My Fitness Plan

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    Thoughts on a Black Female "Living Legend": Mikki Taylor of Essence Magazine

    You've heard the term "living legend"--it simply means someone fabulous that we are fortunate enough to still have in our midst, but who we all fully expect to be a "legend" long after they (and we) are gone from this life.  My sisterfriend, mentor, and 2nd mom Mikki Taylor is one of those people. Mikki turns "30" today (not her chronological age, of course, but her career age at Essence) and we should honor and celebrate her for the great value she has meant to black women and the black community at large.

    I first met Mikki some years ago, but her presence in my life has been nothing short of a gift of teaching, wisdom, and true sisterhood.  This should come as no surprise to the generations of black women who have read Essence for the past almost 40 years.  What I love most about my friend Mikki is that she is truly "authentic" something young black women need to grasp firmly in their lives, now more than ever.  As she likes to tell me "Sophia you have to show up ready everyday for life".  Mikki is a lot like a shot of Tequila--"straight no chaser" and I love her for that old fashioned sense of grace, charm and candor that she brings to my life everyday.  Amazingly, she is also devoted wife (of over 30 years), mother of three and grandmother of one.  She is truly a "do it all" kind of sister and she exemplifies the fact that we can have it all sisters, if we are grounded in faith, and self love and respect.

    Of all the many things we long-time Essence readers have to be grateful for, Mikki Taylor may be the greatest of all (of course we all loved the soulful spirit and musings of Susan L. Taylor, Longtime former Essence Editor in Chief) beause she has had a quiet yet steady impact on the lives of black women in a way that is truly transformational.  Over the past 30 years, Mikki helped to create and shape a new image of black women in the beauty sector and she has coached companies, industry leaders and the like on how black women think, shop, and experience life differently, perhaps, than do other women.  Her impact in this area, I believe, will be felt for generations to come.

    As I think of the passing of legends like Naomi Sims, and other black female trailblazers, and the impact they have had on how the rest of us as black women view our self worth and value, Mikki leaps forward to the front as one of those somewhat "unsung sister heroes" who work behind the scenes to make a monumental difference in the lives of others.  So today, we thank you and celebrate you Mikki--we wish you God's blessings and providence over your life and your great vision for the health, beauty, relational and spiritual wellness of today's black woman.

    Sophia Nelson is a Regular Contributor to the Root.com & TEWW

    OMG Look at Your Hair!

    Last week, when Sarah Palin popped onto the set of Oprah’s “Fridays Live” program (via satellite from Wasilla, Alaska) she gave the talk show host pause. No, it wasn’t that she’s pregnant again. It was her hairstyle. The front looked basically the same as most of us are used to seeing it, but this time the back was a bevy of drop curls.

    “Look at your hair!” Oprah exclaimed in astonishment. "What did you do to your hair?"

    There was an awkward pause, which I assumed was due more to satellite technology than Palin hunting, I mean, fishing for an answer. Still, it was hard to tell. Who wants to be put on the spot when they think they’re looking cute?

    "Do you like it?" Palin cheerfully -- if not nervously -- replied. "I tried to look like you."

    "Yes, I'm not used to you having that many curls," said Oprah. "It's kind of cute, but I was just surprised to see you pop up there with the curls. Great. What's the weather like in Wasilla today?”

    Regardless of what Oprah truly thought of Palin’s business in the front, party in the back ‘do, “kind of cute” is not a compliment. “Kind of” is kind of a diss.

    Surely Oprah Winfrey has endured her fair share of comments about her various changing coiffures over the years. The queen of daytime television has worn more styles than Beverly Johnson offers in all of her collections combined. And I’m willing to bet that many of these comments and questions Oprah’s put up with have probably come from people who wouldn’t know how to use a hot comb to save their lives.

    From homeroom, to the boardroom -- sometimes even the bedroom -- black women have had to defend a myriad of decisions about what they opt to do with their hair. And it sucks. I couldn’t help but wonder if that was at least partly where Oprah’s response was coming from, if it had more to do with her personal hairstory than the hockey mom in front of her.

    --MEERA BOWMAN-JOHNSON

    Tatyana Ali Misses the Target With "Love That Girl"

    Just a few months after the premier of her BET.com web-series, “Buppies,” Fresh Prince of Bel-Air alum Tatyana Ali is trying to recreate her 90’s sitcom magic with “Love That Girl” on TV One. Produced by Martin Lawrence and created by Bentley Kyle Evans (who produced “The Jamie Foxx Show”), the series features Ali as a divorcee ready to celebrate her freedom by wielding her newly earned real estate license around L.A. in her knock-off designer suits, as her friends so eagerly point out.

    With reality shows in heavy rotation on almost every network from Discovery Health to the Food Channel, scripted sitcoms are refreshing and gladly welcomed – especially Black sitcoms. It would seem, however, that the combination of veterans from “Martin”, “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air” and “The Jamie Foxx Show” could come up with a better product than “Love That Girl.” From her flamboyant neighbors who prance around in fluffy pink robes, “man purses” and announce “heeeyy!” in unison when they enter a room; to the over-the-top Shaneyney wanna-be who wears neon catsuits to her job at a real estate office and said “oh uh uh!” one too many times for a half-hour show. The corny one-liners and the extreme character personalities left me cringing more than laughing.

    If there was any hope of a return to quality scripted television, it won’t come with “Love That Girl.”

    -- JADA F. SMITH

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    Congrats, Mo'Nique, on Your Golden Globe!

    She immersed herself in the role of Mary, Claireece "Precious" Jones' mother, in the critically acclaimed movie, Precious. And she had Hollywood, and black America, buzzing about her portrayal even before the movie was released. And now she's won a Golden Globe. Congrats, Mo'Nique!

    In a recent New York Times piece, she talked about how she would not campaign for an award and that the proof was already in the pudding. See the movie, decide for yourselves, the end. And it looks like her tactics are paying off. Has she positioned herself to be an Oscar favorite? What'd you think of her speech?

    --ERIN EVANS

    Pants on the Ground?!

    Larry Platt, obviously too old to really be considered as a contestant on American Idol, had a few choice words for all the young men out there wearing their pants too low. He's a 62-year-old veteran of the Vietnam War and has set himself up to be one of the most memorable performers on the show's history. Watch here.

    Platt has quickly become a star. He'll appear on The View on Monday to perform his song once again. And of course, he's already staked his claim on Twitter. Follow the trending topic "Pants on the Ground" here.

    RT @RyanSeacrest "Pants on the ground" fever hits youtube! haha watch these covers http://bit.ly/7EOtjz‬

    Soar_09: oh man idk why i watched this Pants on the ground video but its now stuck in my head... this is gonna be a hit!

    Platt's definitely on to something here. And I'm glad the Idol producers let him on the show--even if just to get a laugh and better ratings--to send out a little message to all the baggin', saggin' guys--and girls, yes I've seen it--out there. So what do you think about Larry Platt and his Idol hit?

    --ERIN EVANS

    Sade's 'Soldier of Love' Video Reminds Us Why We Love Her

    Bossip just premiered a new music video by R&B chanteuse Sade, the "Smooth Operator" soulstress who has, until now, been M.I.A. from the mainstream music scene. The end of her decade-long hiatus comes just in time to kick off the tweens in elegant fashion with the single "Soldier of Love."

    I've lost the use of my heart
    But I'm still alive
    Still looking for the life
    The endless pool on the other side

    The song, a wounded soldier's account of war in the name of love, artfully blends melancholy melodies with a steady percussion. Standing poise at the forefront of a desert backdrop, Sade leads a band of marching soldiers that could show R. Kelly a thing or two about stepping in the name of love. As the heartbroken heroine, Sade dons a glitter cowgirl outfit (and I'm not even mad at her) along with her signature slicked-back ponytail and those thin hoop earrings.

    The simple, no frills-style of "Soldier of Love" recalls a time when music videos were more about storytelling through song and less about making it rain. (I love that Sade's riding a wild horse, not a mechanical bull. Ahem, Beyonce.) See the video for yourself, here.

    Sade's album, Soldier of Love, drops early February, just in time to bring sultry back in the new year.

    -- SAARET E. YOSEPH

    Yet Another Fowl Play

    It's week one of the new year, but ye olde stereotyping won't drop as quickly as that ball did on midnight. It's a shame that my first TEWW post in 2010 has to be about ANOTHER ignorant ad. Apparently, KFC's execs didn't get my 2009 memo to text service company KGB: Minority consumers won't turn a blind eye to racist commercials!

    I guess, racial sensitivity wasn't on KFC's resolution list. Check out a recent ad they released in Australia as a part of "KFC's Cricket Survival Guide:"

    Why, oh why, did the fast-food giant feel compelled to go for the overdone -- and offensive -- connection between black folks and their bird. Oh, that's right, there's no racism in Australia. Responding to backlash that resulted from online reproductions of the ad in the United States, KFC has released a public statement emphasizing that the "culturally-based stereotype" of chicken-loving darkies is specific to the U.S. and that their "light-hearted reference to the West Indian cricket team" was misintepreted by American viewers.

    Fair enough. But how much longer will the "I didn't know I couldn't do that" defense be used before we start conquering some stubborn social mores? A similarly offensive commercial floating around YouTube illustrates just how far the chicken-loving Negro has made it around the world.

    So, unless Dave Chappelle was right about our predisposition for poultry, KFC should pull the commercial. Contact them here to tell them so. Corporations need to be conscious of their global consumers. Cultural ignorance is so 2009. And stereotyping? We off that.

    -- SAARET E. YOSEPH

    Avon Barksdale Is Back

    In March, just two years after The Wire went dead, the real Avon Barksdale will be brought to the screen in a new documentary, The Avon Barksdale Story—Legends Of The Unwired, which has already won best docudrama at the New York Independent Film & Video Festival.

    Watch the trailer.

    Ummm … is it just me? Or does this “gripping” docudrama look like one of those made-for-BET movies? The filmmakers could have scrapped all the extra footage and kept the camera trained on Barksdale. From the looks of the trailer, this film is going straight to DVD, with its corny Garage Band-produced background music and horrible acting sequences—bloody-mouthed pitbulls, a woman burned by a drug dealer with a Gold-n-Hot curling iron, bad hair weaves and a ridiculous dying scene. (How do you get shot in the head twice and then move the pillow away?)

    Sans the bad B-roll and corny narration, the documentary of Nathan Avon “Bodie” Barksdale should be intriguing, if only for the interview. He’s obviously a character. “Don’t make me no rat, and don’t make me no snitch since y’all say there ain’t nothing I can do to stop it. Just don’t do that, and I won’t kill yo ass,” as he told David Simon when he was approached about being the inspiration for Wood Harris’ character.

    I’m sure I will be compelled to watch it. I was an avid viewer of the show, admittedly a year after its run. And I still consume anything and everything associated with its brilliance. But if the trailer is any indication of this film's depth and vitality, I think I’ll stick to my soon-to-come DVD box set.

    ERIN EVANS

    Africa Redux

    Every few years, people in the fashion industry rediscover Africa. Like mini-skirts and ripped jeans, African textiles reappear on the runways of New York and Europe and their revival is duly noted. Fashion is cyclical like that and I have no problems with the media taking note. That's what I do for a living after all; musing about trends is what keeps the kibble in my doggie's dish. But what distresses me about stories, such as the one that recently turned up in the New York Times, is the way that African aesthetics are consistenly viewed through the dual lenses of race and politics. It always has to mean something when people--black or white or brown or yellow--decide to incorporate African textiles into their wardrobe, for instance. Today those decisions now serve as evidence of how far we have come in our race relations or how everyone feels connected to Africa or how Africa is romantic or non-commercial or some such.

    I long for the day when the explanation for embracing African aesthetics is simple and wholly mundane: They're pretty.

    It will be a fine day when the decision to mix Nigerian fabrics with gray flannel is no longer treated like fashion's equivalent of a United Nations treaty.

    That kind of nonchalant reaction won't lesson the rich history of African style and it won't diminish its beauty. But it will mean that at long last African aesthetics won't be treated as a curious "other" whose emergence in the mainstream not only has to be acknowledged but dissected. The implication of that parsing? There has to be some complicated reason why African textiles are popular; it can't be merely because they are attractive, because that would mean our definition of beauty has been limited, misguided or just plain wrong.

    The best designers who are inspired by Africa take advantage of the continent's textiles with the same ease other designers have with Swiss lace, Irish wool or Chinese silk. Africa's beauty can be embraced by anyone. And that shouldn't come as a surprise.

    --ROBIN GIVHAN

    The Best Year-End Review That You Don't Have To Read

    For all the roundups, galleries and essays that we've run here on The Root, it's never really officially the end of the year until I hear Skillz' year-end wrap-up. Skillz, a rapper from Virginia who has released these wrap-ups since 2002, is also a ghostwriter for several rappers.

    At one point during all the media hoopla surrounding Chris Brown v. Rihanna, Balloon Boy mania, Tiger Woods' drama and Michael Jackson's untimely death, I eventually thought, "Hmm, what's Skillz going to say 'bout this?"

    I started following Skillz on Twitter just after Thanksgiving, so that I'd be one of the first to know when he dropped his much anticipated roundup of the year's craziest events in pop and politics. Listen to it here.

    10 LINES FROM SKILLZ' 2009 WRAP-UP

    D.C. starts off the conversation cause we was in your town for the inauguration.

    The industry got to get it in gear/It's bad when a mixtape is really the album of the year.

    We all took to this new thing called Twitter ... And if ya wanna, you can follow me at skillzva.

    Bernie Madoff, he was playing for keeps. Amber Rose became famous without having to speak.

    Chris Brown, now that's my guy/But how he do an interview and all y'all notice is his bowtie?

    Mike was huge/The news shut the Internet down.

    As far as R&B goes, Trey Songz is the guy/And I'mma grown man, but I'm scared of Lady Gaga.

    But the idiot of the year is Tiger Woods. Can you say fail? Who else is named Tiger? Why would you leave your name on the voicemail?

    I can't watch Mo'Nique's show cause she yell too much.

    It was a very sad year, to say the least. So to everybody we lost, rest in peace. Ya boy skillz, and I did it again, welcoming y'all to 2010.

    And here's my charge to Skillz: Make a decade wrap-up. No rush.

    --ERIN EVANS