Richard Prince's popular column on the news media, published by the Maynard Institute for Journalism Education (www.mije.org).
FEBRUARY 7 | CNN Suspends Roland Martin Over Tweets
FEBRUARY 5 | AP Lays Off Diversity Advocate
FEBRUARY 2 | News of Don Cornelius' Death Goes Viral
FEBRUARY 10 | Diverse Support for Contraception Law
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FEBRUARY 8 | Santorum Wins; Doubts About Romney
Well Played, BET, Well Played
In all honesty, I don't know what kind of ratings the Nielsen meter is handing out for BET these days. All I know is that I rarely contribute to those numbers and I usually don't give them more than an a few channel-surfing seconds. Until right about now. If you aren't an alien to the Twitterverse, you know that this is the time of year that fair-weather BET viewers, like myself, gather ‘round the tube to watch (and tweet) the spectacle that is the BET Awards.
It's what we did last year.
Lamenting over last year's Young Money performance of "Every Girl," featuring Lil Wayne and Drake for which 12-year-old girls strut around the stage. (The lyrics repeat: I wish I could f*ck every girl in the world.) Shaking our collective heads about the much anticipated Michael Jackson tribute, which, well ... sucked.
We watched together - on Twitter - because many of us were still getting our feet wet with the Twitter Whale and we finally understood what all the hype was about. The second-by-second updates from both amateur and professional pop culture critics gave viewers something similar to an online watch party with the entire e-vite list in attendance. The witty, the unapologetically mean and the hilarious with no-harm-intended commentary on every piece of the coon-tastic action is what has Twit's everywhere RSVP'ing to be apart of it all again in 2010.
This year, the execs at BET made sure they'd be in on that Trending Topic action, by nominating insta-trend himself, 16-year-old Justin Bieber for the Best New Artist award. Seeing as how pop culture's wonder boy is not usually marketed to BET's routine demographic, I'm convinced that his presence or even the mention of his name at the ceremony is all ratings motivated. Yes for hits on Nielsen, but more importantly for hits on Twitter.
It makes sense, considering celebrities with a lot of followers on Twitter have started to refer to him as "Justin B" in their tweets to avoid launching him to Trending Topic #1 for the millionth time. And although we're right in the middle of the website's 15 seconds, its ability for fame-making can't be denied. The New York Times reported today that CBS will be creating a television show based on a popular Twitter account. So even though veterans to the Twitter game already know that award shows are the best time to tune into Twitter, with the addition of Twitter royalty "Justin B." to the lineup, this year's BET Awards will be the talk of the Twitterverse.
-- JADA F. SMITH
From the Red Carpet to a Brown Baby
When Sandra Bullock stepped on stage to thank the Academy for naming her best actress this year, she also gave a special shout out to “the moms that take care of the babies and the children, no matter where they come from.”
Now we know why. In January, Sandra Bullock and soon-to-be ex-husband, Jesse James, secretly adopted a baby. And yes - that baby’s a brother.
Three-and-a-half month old Louis Bardo Bullock was born in New Orleans. His adoptive parents chose to name him after jazz legend, Louis Armstrong. Although Bullock is going forward with divorcing James, she recently told People that she is enjoying every moment of her single mother status. "You wake up, you feed, you burp, you play, you do laundry," she said. "I'm still in that stage where I'm just amazed with him and at life."
As if surviving marital affairs and divorce proceedings isn’t enough already, Sandra Bullock now has the challenge of new motherhood in front of her. But the diapers will be the easy part. Being the real-life white mom of an adopted black child is much different than playing one on the large screen. When it comes to inter-racial adoption, many people feel that love isn’t enough.
Judging from that tearful acceptance speech, though, I have a feeling that little Louis Bullock will be just fine. His mommy has the next eighteen years – if not his whole life – to worry about race matters as they pertain to him anyway. For now, she should just enjoy these first months doing what any other new mom of a beautiful, brown baby boy would do: love on him. And just feel thankful she won’t have to do hair.
Dear Kiely, T.M.I.
I'm sure Kiely Williams is so glad to be done with the Cheetah Girls and 3 Little Women. I mean, who wants to be associated with a played out animal print, tweeny-bopper pop music and the Disney Channel for the rest of her life? (Sorry, Raven-Symone.)
So in celebration, Ms. Williams decided to show another side of herself in her latest video, "Spectacular." What better way to tell the whole world you're grown than by pretending to go out to the club dressed like a call girl, getting stupid drunk and having passionate, unprotected sex with a perfect stranger? A perfect stranger who may or may not have date raped you?
Oh yes she did. Check the lyrics:
You can say what you want but
You can call me a slut but
What he did to me last night felt so good
I must have been on drugs
I hope he used a rubber
Or I'mma be in trouble
Promise I don't remember
Except for rolling over
Okay, we hear you - the sex was spectacular! In fact it was so hot, you can barely remember it!
Really, girl?
There’s a big difference between being grown n’ sexy and being young and dumb. Beyonce’s smart about her career - she flaunts her sexuality without looking like someone who needs an intervention. Even smarter, she blames any behavior that would get the side eye from Mathew and Tina on someone else.
In an era when teen pregnancy is so prevalent, it’s reality tv fodder, and black women are still contracting H.I.V. at an alarmingly fast rate, I find Williams’ choice to make the video a bit irresponsible. Especially for someone who has more than a handful of young women and girls who look up to her. But I keep forgetting – she’s grown.
Still, she could have at least made the brother hail her a cab the next morning. Even Sasha Fierce would do that.
Doing the Right Thing?
According to artist Sofia Maldonado, the stylized female figures on her 92’ x 12’ mural at Times Square (on view now until April 30, 2010) were meant to represent working women who are seldom seen in mainstream media. They are working class Latinas, the kind of women that Rosie Perez brought to the large screen in Spike Lee's "Do the Right Thing" more than twenty years ago. Beige and brown-skinned with hair colors that aren't usually found in nature, the women of Maldonado's imagination wear tight clothing, airbrushed fingernails nails and elaborate coiffures fit for a hair show. They skateboard and shake their hips to a distant dancehall beat. And although they're supposed to be enjoying themselves, the mural’s title, “Women Working to Get Ahead," explains why its subjects don’t exactly look happy.
Several African Americans, both male and female, took offense to the large-scale painting that was commissioned by the Times Square Alliance for Women’s History Month. In a recent video that features the painting, viewers stand before it, snapping photos and shouting in frustration. Speaking for the silent, somber figures behind them, the protesters voiced their fears that the mural might tarnish the reputation of dignified black women far and wide.
In response to the criticism, Sofia Maldonado, who was born in Puerto Rico and trained at Pratt Institute recently issued a statement in defense of her work:
“[My mural] illustrates strong New York City women as a tribute to the Caribbean experience in America. Inspired by my heritage, it illustrates a female aesthetic that is not usually represented in media or fashion advertising in Times Square. It recognizes the beauty of underground cultures such as reggaeton, hip-hop and dancehall and incorporates trends such as nail art and Latina fashion.”
But to some, the statement wasn’t enough to heal psychological wounds that stem from the fact that for far too long, media images of women of color have failed to show the full scope of their humanity. For many, these wounds are healing, but they still hurt.
It’s safe to say that the protesters wouldn't have had much say about larger than life sized painting of a wise Latina, like Sonia Sotomayor. But what about a streetwise Latina artist who uses vivid color to make people stop and take a good look at her people, for better or for worse? By giving viewers pause, Sofia Maldonado making them ask themselves questions they'd rather not answer. Is a Boricua popping gum any less worthy of visiblilty than a sister wearing pearls?
The Best Gabourey Sidibe Interview So Far
I can't get enough of cub reporter Damon Weaver. Last year I got a chance to interview him just after he sat down with President Barack Obama for an exclusive interview. He was at it again this weekend at the NAACP Image Awards, interviewing Morgan Freeman, Ben Jealous, Gabourey Sidibe, and Quinton Aaron on the red carpet. Take a look at some of his interviews.
Did you know the star of The Blind Side could sing?
Morgan Freeman: "You're 11 and have a protege?" Canal Point Elementary now has another budding reporter in Jalyn Mitchell.
Gabourey Sidibe gives him a soaring fist pump.
NAACP president Ben Jealous talks about the importance of the Image Awards.
Damon and Jalyn give me quite a bit of hope for the '90s babies out there. And I'm looking forward to their next big interview.
Would You Let Serena Williams Do Your Nails?
I know it sounds like an outlandish question, but apparently Serena Williams is one of Palm Beach, Fla.’s budding nail technicians. This, ladies and gents, is not a game for Ms. Williams.
“Don’t be surprised if you hear about a part-time job I’ve picked up at a local nail salon,” she wrote on the celebrity blog site, Global Grind.
The younger Williams sister says she will be producing a nail care collection with HairTech, a company pushing “the world’s best hair extensions” by way of celebutante Paris Hilton. Wonder how much Paris knows about the inner workings of the hair industry? Well, Serena is determined to know all about taking care of your fingers and toes—which is admirable. So many celebrities attach their names to products—Kim Kardashian with Carl’s Jr. (accused of being paid up to $10,000 per Tweet), Rachael Ray with Dunkin’ Donuts (later rumored to only drink Starbucks coffee)—and for many of them it’s all about the money.
But Serena and her sister, Venus, have proven to be shrewd businesswomen. They were known for the bright and fashionable tennis outfits, and in 2004, Serena launched her fashion line, Aneres. In August 2009, the Williams sisters became part owners of the Miami Dolphins, making them the first African-American females to own part of an NFL franchise.
So I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that she’s taken a serious interest in nail care, upon inking a deal with HairTech. If anything, Serena’s latest endeavor has me thinking about my own trips to the nail salon. The industry is dominated, just like the “black hair” industry, with Asian-owned and -operated salons. I’ve never been to a black-owned nail salon. And I know there are several black-owned, full-service day spas out there. But for me, the quickie nail salon on the corner seemed to be much more convenient, much cheaper, albeit sometimes less sanitary, than the more high-end, high-priced day spas that many black entrepreneurs own.
In today’s celebrity-driven, product-placement riddled, I-can-say-what-I-want-cause-someone-else-will-say-something-even-more-ignorant-tomorrow culture, it’s nice to see Serena doing something worthwhile. And if, like many in my generation, I’m supposed to admire a celebrity for their efforts—on and off the court, field, TV screen or stage—then maybe I will let Serena do my nails, too.
—ERIN EVANS, FOLLOW HER ON TWITTER.
John Mayer's Stupid Mouth
I'm never speaking up again
It only hurts me
-- John Mayer, "Stupid Mouth"
At a Feb. 10 concert in Nashville, singer John Mayer said he's officially done with the media game. I think that's a smart decision. Sounding as if he was close to tears onstage, Mayer apologized to his fans for the comments he made in a recent Playboy interview. "I decided I would try to be as clever as possible," Mayer confessed. "And I did that at the expense of people that I love ..." As a self-proclaimed John Mayer-lover, I didn't want to believe how "clever" he could be:
I don’t think I open myself to [sex with black women.] My dick is sort of like a white supremacist. I’ve got a Benetton heart and a fuckin’ David Duke cock. I’m going to start dating separately from my dick.
Sadly, after reading the entire interview, I wasn't surprised by his remarks. Disappointed, yes, but not surprised. In these "post-racial" days, the "down" white boy can do more damage than David Duke. But what did shock me was that Mayer would be stupid enough to say those words on the record. The husky-voiced heartthrob behind "Waiting on the World to Change," whose blues style has complemented the likes of Kanye West and Common, couldn't be the same guy who volunteered a comparison between a "hood pass" and a "Nigger pass."
Never underestimate the arrogance of a comfortable white boy.
After his audacious brush off of black women, Mayer went on to add how he "always thought Holly Robinson Peete was gorgeous." (Thanks for the consolation, John!) Peete has since chided Mayer's comments, but dismissed them as racist. And I'd have to agree with her. Though it seems this isn't the first time Mayer's caught a case of "accidental racism," the whole conversation, which was prefaced with alcohol, paints a more realistic picture of a post-racial America where a drunk mind speaks a sober heart. He was confident "... black people love me," so the verbal diarrhea didn't matter so much. I've encountered a few down white boys who made the same assumption.
Do John Mayer and his penis hate black folks? Probably not. Judging by his Tweets and his heartfelt address to his nearly all-black band ensemble, he really never meant to offend anyone. But time hanging out on the road with his backup singers, Kanye's and Common's crew might have led Mayer to believe he was just that cool. Hopefully, he will take his own advice, stop trying to think of witty sound bites and just play his guitar from here on out. A clever tongue is a terrible thing to let loose.
--SAARET E. YOSEPH
Thoughts on a Black Female "Living Legend": Mikki Taylor of Essence Magazine
You've heard the term "living legend"--it simply means someone fabulous that we are fortunate enough to still have in our midst, but who we all fully expect to be a "legend" long after they (and we) are gone from this life. My sisterfriend, mentor, and 2nd mom Mikki Taylor is one of those people. Mikki turns "30" today (not her chronological age, of course, but her career age at Essence) and we should honor and celebrate her for the great value she has meant to black women and the black community at large.
I first met Mikki some years ago, but her presence in my life has been nothing short of a gift of teaching, wisdom, and true sisterhood. This should come as no surprise to the generations of black women who have read Essence for the past almost 40 years. What I love most about my friend Mikki is that she is truly "authentic" something young black women need to grasp firmly in their lives, now more than ever. As she likes to tell me "Sophia you have to show up ready everyday for life". Mikki is a lot like a shot of Tequila--"straight no chaser" and I love her for that old fashioned sense of grace, charm and candor that she brings to my life everyday. Amazingly, she is also devoted wife (of over 30 years), mother of three and grandmother of one. She is truly a "do it all" kind of sister and she exemplifies the fact that we can have it all sisters, if we are grounded in faith, and self love and respect.
Of all the many things we long-time Essence readers have to be grateful for, Mikki Taylor may be the greatest of all (of course we all loved the soulful spirit and musings of Susan L. Taylor, Longtime former Essence Editor in Chief) beause she has had a quiet yet steady impact on the lives of black women in a way that is truly transformational. Over the past 30 years, Mikki helped to create and shape a new image of black women in the beauty sector and she has coached companies, industry leaders and the like on how black women think, shop, and experience life differently, perhaps, than do other women. Her impact in this area, I believe, will be felt for generations to come.
As I think of the passing of legends like Naomi Sims, and other black female trailblazers, and the impact they have had on how the rest of us as black women view our self worth and value, Mikki leaps forward to the front as one of those somewhat "unsung sister heroes" who work behind the scenes to make a monumental difference in the lives of others. So today, we thank you and celebrate you Mikki--we wish you God's blessings and providence over your life and your great vision for the health, beauty, relational and spiritual wellness of today's black woman.
Sophia Nelson is a Regular Contributor to the Root.com & TEWW
OMG Look at Your Hair!
Last week, when Sarah Palin popped onto the set of Oprah’s “Fridays Live” program (via satellite from Wasilla, Alaska) she gave the talk show host pause. No, it wasn’t that she’s pregnant again. It was her hairstyle. The front looked basically the same as most of us are used to seeing it, but this time the back was a bevy of drop curls.
“Look at your hair!” Oprah exclaimed in astonishment. "What did you do to your hair?"
There was an awkward pause, which I assumed was due more to satellite technology than Palin hunting, I mean, fishing for an answer. Still, it was hard to tell. Who wants to be put on the spot when they think they’re looking cute?
"Do you like it?" Palin cheerfully -- if not nervously -- replied. "I tried to look like you."
"Yes, I'm not used to you having that many curls," said Oprah. "It's kind of cute, but I was just surprised to see you pop up there with the curls. Great. What's the weather like in Wasilla today?”
Regardless of what Oprah truly thought of Palin’s business in the front, party in the back ‘do, “kind of cute” is not a compliment. “Kind of” is kind of a diss.
Surely Oprah Winfrey has endured her fair share of comments about her various changing coiffures over the years. The queen of daytime television has worn more styles than Beverly Johnson offers in all of her collections combined. And I’m willing to bet that many of these comments and questions Oprah’s put up with have probably come from people who wouldn’t know how to use a hot comb to save their lives.
From homeroom, to the boardroom -- sometimes even the bedroom -- black women have had to defend a myriad of decisions about what they opt to do with their hair. And it sucks. I couldn’t help but wonder if that was at least partly where Oprah’s response was coming from, if it had more to do with her personal hairstory than the hockey mom in front of her.
--MEERA BOWMAN-JOHNSON
Tatyana Ali Misses the Target With "Love That Girl"
Just a few months after the premier of her BET.com web-series, “Buppies,” Fresh Prince of Bel-Air alum Tatyana Ali is trying to recreate her 90’s sitcom magic with “Love That Girl” on TV One. Produced by Martin Lawrence and created by Bentley Kyle Evans (who produced “The Jamie Foxx Show”), the series features Ali as a divorcee ready to celebrate her freedom by wielding her newly earned real estate license around L.A. in her knock-off designer suits, as her friends so eagerly point out.
With reality shows in heavy rotation on almost every network from Discovery Health to the Food Channel, scripted sitcoms are refreshing and gladly welcomed – especially Black sitcoms. It would seem, however, that the combination of veterans from “Martin”, “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air” and “The Jamie Foxx Show” could come up with a better product than “Love That Girl.” From her flamboyant neighbors who prance around in fluffy pink robes, “man purses” and announce “heeeyy!” in unison when they enter a room; to the over-the-top Shaneyney wanna-be who wears neon catsuits to her job at a real estate office and said “oh uh uh!” one too many times for a half-hour show. The corny one-liners and the extreme character personalities left me cringing more than laughing.
If there was any hope of a return to quality scripted television, it won’t come with “Love That Girl.”
-- JADA F. SMITH






















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