Demetria L.'s Articles

Being Celibate Is Wearing Me Down

Ask Demetria: Whether you have sex is your business, but you must figure out why you're avoiding it.

Yes, Black Women Can Get Along

She Matters: Despite what you see on reality TV, the bonds of sisterhood are strong.

He Knocked Her Up While Dating Me

Ask Demetria: While he didn't really cheat on you, there are still reasons why you need to quit him.

Is the Worst of Reality TV Over?

She Matters: If the recent season finale of RHOA is any indication, it just might be.

I'm Taken but Want to Get Back With My Ex

Ask Demetria: Whether or not to cheat is easy to answer. Making the right choice may be harder.

Black Women Won't Be Erased Here

She Matters: In a new weekly column for The Root, Demetria L. Lucas tells their stories.

I Woke Up Naked in Co-Worker's Bed

Ask Demetria: You may have been a victim of acquaintance rape, and there's only one way to be sure.

He Hasn't Called Lately. Should I Drop By?

Ask Demetria: His failure to communicate could be a clue to the state of your relationship.

Why Are 'Frustrated' Black Men in Brazil?

A film about African-American men seeking women fuels debate about the state of black relationships.

A Friend Told Her Man My Private Info!

Ask Demetria: You may feel violated, but there's one thing you can do to keep your secrets safe.