Demetria L.'s Articles
Being Celibate Is Wearing Me Down
Ask Demetria: Whether you have sex is your business, but you must figure out why you're avoiding it.
Yes, Black Women Can Get Along
She Matters: Despite what you see on reality TV, the bonds of sisterhood are strong.
He Knocked Her Up While Dating Me
Ask Demetria: While he didn't really cheat on you, there are still reasons why you need to quit him.
Is the Worst of Reality TV Over?
She Matters: If the recent season finale of RHOA is any indication, it just might be.
I'm Taken but Want to Get Back With My Ex
Ask Demetria: Whether or not to cheat is easy to answer. Making the right choice may be harder.
Black Women Won't Be Erased Here
She Matters: In a new weekly column for The Root, Demetria L. Lucas tells their stories.
I Woke Up Naked in Co-Worker's Bed
Ask Demetria: You may have been a victim of acquaintance rape, and there's only one way to be sure.
He Hasn't Called Lately. Should I Drop By?
Ask Demetria: His failure to communicate could be a clue to the state of your relationship.
Why Are 'Frustrated' Black Men in Brazil?
A film about African-American men seeking women fuels debate about the state of black relationships.
A Friend Told Her Man My Private Info!
Ask Demetria: You may feel violated, but there's one thing you can do to keep your secrets safe.

















