Gay Marriage: Stuff White People Do?

Your Take: Anti-gay marriage group is wrong to use race as a wedge between gays and minorities.

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This week the Human Rights Campaign released a number of previously sealed documents from the National Organization for Marriage, the nation’s largest group to oppose marriage equality. Among the documents are several that detail one of NOM’s primary strategies: playing the race card.

These documents reveal that NOM engaged in a concerted effort to “drive a wedge between gays and blacks.” It further admits to manipulating the Latino community by working to make opposition to marriage equality “a key badge of Latino identity” and “an identity marker, a badge of youth rebellion to conformist assimilation to the bad side of ‘Anglo’ culture.”

NOM’s strategy is insidious for many reasons, and several advocates have commented on the reprehensible race-baiting outlined in these documents. It is insulting exploitation that heartlessly barters increased racist sentiment in exchange for an antigay marriage agenda.

But perhaps most disturbing, and thus far unexplored, is the devastating impact of this cynical strategy on lesbian, gay and bisexual people — particularly youths — of color. NOM’s willingness to foster racial tension in order to thwart marriage equality attempts to turn black lesbian, gay and bisexual young people into cultural pariahs and divide our families and communities. The black community should view NOM’s strategy as exactly what it is: an admission that in its war against equality, the organization views our families and children as expendable.

The disturbing assumption that underlies NOM’s scheme is that the gay community it is attacking and the black community it is exploiting are entirely distinct. That assumption — that “gay” is a white identity and “black” is a straight identity — operates at the expense of black lesbian, gay and bisexual youths.