No, Sexism Is Not the Main Reason Beyoncé Was Criticized and Kendrick Lamar Wasn’t

There are plenty of other valid reasons that their Black Lives Matter-inspired performances didn’t provoke the same reactions.

Kendrick Lamar; Beyoncé
Kendrick Lamar; Beyoncé Larry Busacca/Getty Images for NARAS; TIMOTHY A. CLARY/AFP/Getty Images

It’s been almost a full three days since Kendrick Lamar unleashed holy blackness on the Grammy stage, performing “The Blacker the Berry,” “Alright” and a verse from an untitled song that didn’t make the final cut of his Grammy-winning album, To Pimp a Butterfly. It was a powerful, defiant statement about the state of black America, one that, if we must rate “wokeness,” was on par with or even a step beyond Beyoncé’s widely viewed and much criticized Super Bowl performance.

His first major-label release was in 2012. Good Kid, M.A.A.D. City was about growing up in Compton, Calif., one young black man’s stories used to make a larger statement about growing up black and male in America. His second album, To Pimp a Butterfly, used similar themes with a wider scope. Perhaps the best-known song from that release before the Grammys was “Alright,” which was unofficially adopted as the theme song for Black Lives Matter.

On the Grammy stage, Beyoncé’s performance wouldn’t have faced nearly as much backlash. For better or worse, viewers expect a little controversy at the Grammys. No, it’s not the MTV Video Music Awards, but it’s a bunch of artists gathered together to celebrate their art. Things tend to get a little edgy. It’s the venue where Jennifer Lopez launched herself to superstardom by showing up in a dress cut to her navel. Jon Stewart, as the host, once stripped to his boxers onstage. Nas and Kelis, then married, arrived in apparel with the n-word scrawled in big, gold letters on it. The Grammys and controversy go together.

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In fairness, there is absolutely some sexism at play. LaSha rightfully assesses that Beyoncé’s attire of a leotard and tights during her Super Bowl performance is unfairly used to discredit her message. She points out, “Black men, after all, whether in Levi’s or Kente cloth, can still declare their allegiance to blackness no matter how they’re dressed.”

And she notes that although both Lamar and Beyoncé infuse their black-empowerment messages with lines about sex, no one has raised a brow about Lamar doing so, despite perceiving those same ideas as a strike, so to speak, against Beyoncé. That men face no penalty for expressing sexual desire, while women are shamed, is blatant sexism.

So yes, there is sexism at play in the different responses to Lamar’s and Beyoncé’s performances.

While it may be part of the reason that think pieces condemning Lamar are in short supply, sexism is not the core reason as LaSha asserts. There are other major factors to take into consideration that explain the lack of overanalysis about Lamar’s performance and the abundance of such about Beyoncé.

For starters, Beyoncé is a much bigger star than Lamar. She’s naturally going to garner more interest and more clickbait articles. She has a much longer musical history, one mostly devoid of explicit political statements about black pride or power. And although she’s never shied away from being black (even the L’Oreal commercial, in which she added French and Creole to her ethnic identity, also mentioned African American), she hasn’t come up with anything that’s even a roundabout way of saying, essentially, that Black Lives Matter the way she does in “Formation.”

Beyoncé’s new stance is, well, new. It’s why nonblack people are freaking out, as encapsulated in a hilarious Saturday Night Live segment, “The Day Beyoncé Turned Black.”