Michael Sam: What He Means to Young Gay Black Men

His historic invitation to join the St. Louis Rams could be an important milestone for young men strugging in silence.

Michael Sam speaks to the media during the 2014 NFL Combine at Lucas Oil Stadium Feb. 22, 2014, in Indianapolis.
Michael Sam speaks to the media during the 2014 NFL Combine at Lucas Oil Stadium Feb. 22, 2014, in Indianapolis. Joe Robbins/Getty Images

For every gay black boy on a playground, basketball court or football field across the country who is derided by his peers as a “f–got” or “sissy”—excluded from games and told he has no place on the team—Michael Sam is a living example that not only can they play, but they can win.

“Can Michael Sam play football?” asked the first openly gay player to be drafted by an NFL team. “Yes, I can. And the Saint Louis Rams know I can.”

In February, one week after the Super Bowl and just weeks before the 2014 NFL Combine, Sam, 24, announced that he was gay during an exclusive ESPN interview. At the time he was widely slated by NFL insiders to be a fourth- or fifth-round pick in this year’s draft. His sexual orientation aside, Sam had already proved himself on the field.

At the University of Missouri, he piled up 11.5 sacks and 19 tackles in his senior year—sharing the Missouri single-season sack record with San Francisco 49ers All-Pro Aldon Smith. Sam was voted MVP and helped his team win the SEC East conference, before being named the Co-Defensive Player of the Year. At just under 6 foot 3 and 255 pounds, Sam was compared to the Indianapolis Colts’ Robert Mathis, who led the NFL in sacks in the 2013 season.

In fact, seven former SEC defensive players of the year—Patrick Willis, Jarvis Jones, Morris Claiborne, Rolando McClain, Patrick Peterson, Glenn Dorsey and Eric Berry—were all selected in the first round. Sam, by contrast, wasn’t selected until the final and seventh round of the draft, becoming the 249th out of 256 draft picks. He actually made history by becoming the first SEC Defensive Player of the Year not to have been selected by at least the second round.

As the draft rounds proceeded, ESPN sports analysts began to craft a narrative that it had to do with his lackluster Combine performance. He was referred to as a “tweener” who didn’t have a natural position. Some predicted that he could make a roster as an undrafted free agent, praising his positive attitude and strong “motor.”

But the subtext was clear: After Sam came out, his prospects became limited.

Sports Illustrated published an article quoting unnamed NFL executives as saying that the league simply wasn’t ready for an openly gay player. Commentators echoed these sentiments, claiming that Sam might create an unnecessary “distraction.” One went so far as to say that having an openly gay player would “chemically imbalance an NFL locker room.”

So in the final moments of the final day of the draft, when Michael Sam was chosen by the St. Louis Rams—the same team that in 1946 selected Kenny Washington as the first African American signed to an NFL contract—barriers were again broken.

Wade Davis, a former NFL defensive back, who came out as gay after he left the league, is a friend and mentor to Sam. In reaction to Sam’s draft selection, Davis told The Root, “Michael couldn’t play for a better coach. Jeff Fisher was my coach at Tennessee. When I spoke at the NFL owners’ meeting he came up to me and hugged me. And though it would be disingenuous for me to say that there weren’t teams who were afraid to draft a gay player, I think it’s not as simple as people would like to make it out to be. The truth is, there are 32 teams out there with coaches and general managers who have LGBT people among their family and friends, who they love and respect.”