Being Celibate Is Wearing Me Down

Ask Demetria: Whether you have sex is your business, but you must figure out why you're avoiding it.

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Good luck!

Demetria L. Lucas is a contributing editor for The Root, a life coach and the author of A Belle in Brooklyn: The Go-to Girl for Advice on Living Your Best Single Life. She answers your dating and relationship questions on The Root each week. Feel free to ask anything at